I am looking for my soul mate .... why is it so hard to find this person .... I am a good guy all I ask is that she love God and that would love me .... I have to much love to give someone but everytime I share to women what I am looking for they get scare and run .... well I like being direct .... I am an 38 year old male ... living in Northern Virginia.
2007-01-17 00:56:05 · 10 answers · asked by rob06091968 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this is a recurring problem, and apparently it is, maybe you need to take a long, hard look at yourself......the problem might NOT be the ladies....it just might be YOU! I'm not putting you down, Just making an honest observation.....Ask your closest friends....they will tell you the truth. Is it the ladies, or is it me? Good Luck!!
2007-01-17 01:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have self assurance who loves harder relies upon on which or if both were actually in love in the previous. i have self assurance women folk have a tendency to grant extra of themselves then men for the era of a courting and performance extra at stake the longer the courting lasts. besides the undeniable fact that, in case you've been waiting to learn from the sorrows of authentic love will agree that they are going to in no way experience as deep an emotion for some different person. i have self assurance men who've felt this discomfort reserve themselves better than women folk in destiny relationships. the unhappy ingredient is that many men will in no way understand how a lot they love someone till they are lengthy gone.
2016-11-24 23:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by lansford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be coming off as "desperate". We women come off desperate all the time and send men running. Take the time to read some books on relationships and women. MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS is a good place to start. Enjoy the stages of relationships without expectation and you will find yourself happier. Lovely things happen when we stop looking. You´ll see.
2007-01-17 03:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by Bern 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have asked that myself. I think you should consider giving it a time out and who knows it'll just come to you. I don't know why women in your past run away. That is the best attribute ever and it's hard to find. Straightforwardness. I am the same way. I speak my mind so long as nobody gets run-over, reasonably. Good luck, don't look, it'll come.
2007-01-25 00:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by oscar c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must watch far too many movies. Only in the movies and tv shows do people fall in love instantly...that's because they have only 20 min. You have to cultivate a releationship over few months to find out if eachone of you ave what it takes to live togather forever.
"It is not too important to look into each others eyes, but to look out togather in the same direction".....Vincent Peel
2007-01-24 22:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by secret society 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem lies in your being direct( just a hunch, please don't take it against me.) Maybe you haven't found the person who would be able to take all that you are-- not all gals like guys being direct and frank specially at the beginning of any relationship. I'm not saying that you don't get to the point at all, thing is - a bit of sensitivity and TLC in getting the point accross might work.
good luck
2007-01-24 23:18:41 · answer #6 · answered by jennie o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know wat you mean i have the same problem with men as i also believe in god, and its a lonley life when we cant seem to find anyone with standards like wat we have, ive learnt to be more paitient and i believe that there is someone out there for all of us but the timeing as to be just right, i think that your future mrs right is being prepared to come into your life, just tell your self shes out there and keep doing good in your life and be happy knowing that god has every thing in controle this is were trust comes in, all the best love and light
2007-01-17 01:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by porselinedoll66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie maybe its your approach you might be coming on a lil to direct. Try letting your emotions speak for themselves
2007-01-25 00:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure your looking in the right direction? have you prayed about it? It sounds like your looking at the wrong women....keep it in prayer when the Lord wants you to setle down...he'll bring the right women in your life...just wait on his time!
Hope it helped!
Mae
2007-01-24 18:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by mae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll find one, in time.....
I'm aways accused of having too much love for one person too handle.
2007-01-17 01:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by lazykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋