Sometimes my mom makes me really mad, cause she's over controlling, at least in my opinion. This happened yesterday. She made me really mad at her. Not hurt, just mad, because I know it was out of love and she's sure she' was doing the best for me, though I didn't agree. And in this cases she doesn't back off, always says Hun, it's for your best, I love you. When, like yesterday, she notices I'm really mad at her she always says Hun, I know you're mad at me, so give me a big hug. Maybe I should refuse, but I don't, even mad at her I huh her with love, though I don't agree with her. This takes away much of my anger.
I do'nt know if this is a normal teen behavior. Maybe I'm a too easy going girl. Am I weak?
2007-01-17 00:57:56 · 7 answers · asked by Marta M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No this does not make you weak. And by listening to your mother even when you do not like it makes you very smart. Sometimes we do not feel what our parents tell us is right but believe me they are older and smarter than us and only do things to keep us safe and help us to grow up to be respectiful and responsible adults. She hugs you when she is mad or you are mad and this just show unconditional love for you and by huging her back you are also showing unconditional love for her. We will never agree on everything no matter if we are mother and daughter, daughter and father or even people of our own age but sometimes we really need to sit back and listen because we are not always right and when it is our parents we can discuss the reason we think we are right but you can believe when you get there age and have kids you will see it there way. Even if it does not feel like that right now. You are perfectly normal and dont change. Good luck in life and I can tell by your comment that you will be great at it.
2007-01-17 01:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by Virginia B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not weak. I actually think you are handling this in a very mature way. You are intelligent and mature enough to know that your Mom loves you and wants to do what is best for you, even if you don't agree. It takes some people years to realize this and then they feel guilty for how they treated their Mom. You should be proud of yourself for being a respectful, smart teenager. Your Mom really does want the best for you and is always concerned with your safety. You are a very smart young lady. Keep it up and don't let your friends behavior change you or change your mind.
2007-01-17 03:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't weak, you're normal. And you have a great mom. And I think you know that. You know in your deepest heart that your mom is right, and that she does love you. Which is why the hugs work. You're more mad that she is right that at her.
Most all women I know that are strong, successful, stable, women feel that their moms were controlling, but now they appreciate it.
You are actually very strong - a weak girl wouldn't be able to get past the mad. You are strong enough to know that your mom is more important than a whim.
2007-01-17 01:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by apbanpos 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I remember when I was a teen, god I gave my mum the s h i t s. I'm surprised she didn't kick me out. She is just being your mum, trying to protect you from the world, and to love you. Now I am a mum myself and I cringe, because my teen son is great, but I think my daughter is going to be like me when I was a teenager!
I think you are being a normal teenage girl and it gets easier, trust me!
Like I say to my children, I love you, but I don't like what you have done.
2007-01-17 01:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your fine,,, never refuse your mother a hug,,, someday youll remember those hugs fondly and will wish you could have just one more! never feel like your weak,its great you respect your mother and her decisions, shes walked down the road your are now walking and knows how many bumps there are in the road!
2007-01-17 01:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by cee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not weak just very loving and respectful towards your mother . dont often see anymore from kids.
2007-01-17 01:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by batman6015 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-01 03:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋