The message was talking about him going to FL to see her, and she was going to start jogging so she could be slim and sexy like me....
I confronted him about it last night. I was mad... and I told him that I was. He said it was nothing and it shouldn't matter because we were on a break. I understand that, but she was trash talking me and he was going along with it.
Well all of the sudden he said "So what do you wanna want to do about us?". I didn't say one thing about breaking up or anything...so I don't know where this came from. He said he would let me sleep on it till this morning and I could give him my answer then. I think that he wants out of this relationship or is seeing someone on the side.
Can I get your opinions please....
Myspace will miss up a relationship I agree. But this girl is on his phone under the name of Tim....
I understand all is fair game when your on a break... But she doesn't have to trash talk me, my friends didn't trash him!
2007-01-17 00:54:31 · 15 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I definitely think your boyfriend has made up his mind. break or no break I would not do what he is doing. the fact that he has involved this girl in trash talking about you speaks not so highly of him. also, if he went through the trouble of listing her under Tim I believe he knows that what he is doing is wrong.
I think you should let him go. you don't deserve to be treated like that. if you don't want to end the relationship you need to be straight forward with him and let him know what he is doing is unacceptable. buuuut, based on his sneakiness with the whole Tim thing I wouldn't trust him.
p.s. don't blame MySpace, blame your "boyfriend". if it weren't for MySpace he would find another way to get in contact with other girls. cheaters will find ways.
2007-01-17 01:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by Johanna R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is doing that hun then he isn't a man. a man would let some other person trash talk on you. if he really loved you he would even let anyone even say your name. you deserve better i know its easier said then done but you got to move one. you can do better. he is lie to you if you let him get away with it now he will continue doing that don't let him walk all over you. i know its going to be hard at first but at the end you will forget him. i been in those situation to many times and at the end i move on and im a happier person. if that girl thinks she has the right hand she don't Carma will haunt her. just think about it if he treats you like this what do you think he is going to do to her. just say good riddance. you will find some better there are plenty of fish in the see. and don't play him games. the best of luck to you i hope i help
2007-01-17 01:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree about the trashing behind your back, but blame him more than her. If he knows about it and is not supporting you by saying that it is wrong for her to talk about you then is this REALLY the man you want to be with for the rest of your life?
If you're on a break then it means you will get back together, sounds like he is trying to make you come back, but I would be careful if you do, if he does this now, he will do it later.
2007-01-17 01:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by Michael O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of a man is this??? There's no way he should be letting anyone trash talk you, especially some tart on the 'net. From the sounds of it this has been happening for a while, probably before your break. Personally, I'd get rid of him and let him have his 'net tart.
2007-01-17 01:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by perthboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have him gone before lunchtime today. He's listed her name as tim. He's hiding something and you caught only the surface of his cheating.
Cut your losses and kick this dude to the curb, he's just using you and since he's done what you have actually witnessed, there is bound to be more than this.
Get rid of the jerk. You deserve better.
2007-01-17 01:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may unlike this yet adult males are popular to not be those to end a relationship till push includes shove whilst the girl heavily isn't "getting" the tricks. And so some distance as i will see this could be an somewhat loud and sparkling hint asserting "Pliz end this relationship". And my propose you end it in the previous he does.
2016-10-31 08:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh "ma man" "ma man". I love how people apply that term to girls. The whole thing sounds ghetto to me, but that idea of putting a girl's name under a guy's name is a pretty good trick.
2007-01-17 00:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people say alot of things on Myspace that they don't mean. Sounds like you're over reacting to me.
2007-01-17 01:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up. Move on as he obviously has done already. After that who cares what other people say?
2007-01-17 00:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by Richard Bricker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious that he doesnt value you enough and he won't suddenly begin to value you more if you let that kind of c-r-a-p and drama continue.
Get the f-u-ck over it and move on!
Show yourself some love!
2007-01-17 01:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋