most of the time.i flirt back to them.smiling,eye contact,joking and stuff like that.i don't talk about my virginity.people seem to think that i am the type of girl who is waiting for marriage but i'm not.i just don't want to go and screw someone just so i can say look everyone i had a screw.someone brought up my purity and said they admire it and i said i didn't want to talk about it and he said we all still will.meaning him and the other men.do men find virgins more attractive.i mean older men too
2007-01-17 01:12:11 · 21 answers · asked by debra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being a virgin probably doesn't have as much to do with it as you think. But, having said that, most men are going to be attracted to women who have integrity and values, and you seem to have those in spades!
2007-01-17 01:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by perthboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) What do men talk about when women aren't around? Umm, we talk about the exact same things we do when they are there. Guys arent like that. 2.) What do men really think about virgins? Personally I am utterly amazed that my wife has never been with anyone but me. I couldnt put a price on its value 3.) How do men feel when other guys are checking out their girlfriends? "hey, that guy better watch it or he's likely to get a pop in the nose." 4.)How do men feel when other guys are flirting with their girlfriends? this is when it is obvious someone has over stepped their boudaries "Hey man, that woman is mine, and your making us both uncomfortable. If you cant find a way to back off, I'll find a way for you, get it?" 5.)Why do so many men love a girl with a big butt? They dont. I'm not interested in butts at all.
2016-03-29 01:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be safe and have a good time. You only live once. I think it is great that you have been holding out so far although I hope it's not because you are waiting for the perfect man because we do not exist. Most men are the same and will brag to all of their buddies about taking your virginity. It is an accomplishment to us more than anything because most of our buddies are married or going out with women with more experience. It is not that we find virgins more attractive it is the novelty of being the first man to sleep with you that matters. Sort of like buying a new vs used car. With a new car you are the first to drive it off the lot and put miles on it. Sorry about that analogy, by no means am I comparing you to a car, it's just an example.
2007-01-17 01:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by MIA24/7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You appear to be young and I admire that your a Virgin and your parents should too; However, you don't have to prove anything to anybody capiche?
Thats' your body, your life and so remember that. Sex isn't everything sweety.
Guys love sex and so do girls, but they do it in such a way that it becomes irresponsible of them and then bang,,,,problems in paradise.
Dont' let that happen to you. enjoy your young years and keep in mind that one day, your going to make someone very happy and probably have children of your own and your own family, so keep that as a guide to not do something to jepordize that.
You don't want to be a Mother at 18 years of age because it makes it harder to land the Man you want, because the first thing a good Man does is look at you and know that you goofed.
He may not want the responsibility that comes with you.
Your loving child has now become the burden to your realtionships with Men and your future is heart breaking.
It may never be right and some girls are lucky to have landed them a good Man when they already have a child from someone else and not married never was.
Do you get my drift here? Just Chill out and be happy, but what ever you decide to do you make damn sure your protected at all costs because guys can be worms to Hell.
2007-01-17 01:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their is a innocence thing about it and guys turn it into a conquest. So yeah they will find it a turn on. After they get older they will ease up on it. Virgins are cool and all but now that I am older I would chase more experienced women rather than having to train a young virgin. That is if I was single. I am going to guess that you are in early HS and the older guys are close to or at 18. If so stop flirting with them and stay away all they want is sex. At least the younger ones might atually want to date also.
2007-01-17 01:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by Richard Bricker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be carefull here my dear,some men who r genuine will think much more of you for being a virgin, and well done to u to,and then there r some men that think it the best thing in the world to take a womans virginity ,to them its like scoreing a goal, be very carefull and if you have waited this long then a bit longer wont hurt
get to know the man you want to be with make sure he's not a idiot, be with him for a good while and if he really likes you then he will understand why, men can be cunning and older men like to think that they have still got it ,it is very complicated and sometimes us girls get it wrong,lets hope u get it right, good luck.
2007-01-17 01:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by wiccawoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I feel your virginity is yours for as long as you want it. It is something different to every one.
As an older man, I don't think it is as a big a deal as your friends maybe making of it. For in truth, they may admire and respect you for following your heart and feelings.
I also feel their discussion of your situation is childish and could cause you trouble in the future with strangers, or just the wrong crowd! If i were you I would ignore them and don't encourage their joking and such by responding with jokes and laughing in return.
You are right in not wanting to jump in to the sack with anyone for the purpose of saying you lost your virginity. When you sleep with that special some one, be sure it is some one you want to share yourself with, and hopefully it will be the one you wish to spend the rest of your life with.
Just remember to follow your feelings and heart; don't flirt or joke with these individuals regarding your personal life; protect yourself from possible trouble in the future. We al joke, but some things should not be joked about by older men about younger women.
2007-01-17 01:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think men find you more attractive that your a virgin. I think they consider you a quest. something they could brag about if they were your first.
I don't know how old you are but it doesn't matter hold out as long as you want. It's your body and only you know when your ready. Remember you can't take it back your only a virgin once
STAY STRONG!!!!
2007-01-17 01:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay i don't really understand what you just explained but i try my best. Its doesnt matter if you are virgin or not. Its all about YOU, not your virgins but hey the truth, some guys like clean lady means virign, so guys dont need to worry about dieases, whatever it is. Thats my opinion.
2007-01-17 01:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you keep ur knees together till you find the right one.all men would prefer it if they marride a virgin my women hasnt been touched etc.but on the other hand takes ages for us to teach you how to uhhum properly.but stick with your principles.but then again if you need help in resolving that im only an email away.lol
2007-01-17 01:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋