im not worried about my girl. But she is stupid sometimes, she doesnt see what a guy sees. I see a guy with his gf a long ways away and trying to get away with flirting with my girl. She says hes not, but she said she would stop. But anyway wtf is with this dude. Shouldnt i pull a raid on his *** or should i just brake his heart and tell him that his girl is cheating on his ***. For real or should i just wait for his girl to get back so i can break her off on the dance floor??? this just really pisses me off! my girls best friend is a cheater and her damn bf is fn flirting her her best friend, MY GF! Those 2 really need to break it off because im about to go ape **** and bust em all out, tell him his girl is a lying whore and tell her that her man has been freaking my girl on the dance floor. Im not gunna fight this guy but I seriously dont want to make an *** of myself if i dont have to. I dont want to be enemies with my gf's best freinds bf. .......ugh im not sure what to do
2007-01-17 00:40:06 · 11 answers · asked by Ammbless 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your girlfriend needs to handle this. She should not be dancing with him, especially since you're not comfortable with it. Talk with your girlfriend (in a non-confrontational way). Let her know she's important to you and it makes you feel that you're not important to her when she flirts and dances with other guys. She should make sure the other guy understands that you're her boyfriend and his behavior toward her is inappropriate. Would her best friend approve of this behavior if she were there? If you go after him and embarrass her then you'll just be bringing them closer together. Talk to her. Good Luck!
2007-01-17 00:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kimmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general, guys could really care less if a woman has a bf/husband or not. In most cases, this will only cause us to be slightly more cautious in our approach. We tend to take things a little slower in order to learn more about the womans bf/husband to make sure he isnt the psycho killer type. In fact, there are not many, but some men who prefer to chase women that are in relationships. They see it as a game. What better way to show that you are better than another man than by "taking" his gf/wife. All things said, this is not solely a male trait. There are plenty women who do the same thing. Its human nature to want things that other people have.
2016-03-29 01:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
swallow a giant chill pill for starters. WAY too upset about this. If your gf is welcoming his advances then thats valuable information for you. If not ,she needs to shut him down and if he wont then you (and maybe the authorities) become involved.
2007-01-17 00:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would approach with all sincerity and tell my g/f first of my intention to make him eat dirt !! Than I'd tell the guy to back off my girl or I'll rip your head off and **** down your throat if I even see you near her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! my opinion
2007-01-17 00:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by marc r p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill!!!!!!
As long as she goes home with you at the end of thenight just look at him and smile that "I'm getting it, your'e not" smile.
If she makes a move, dump her.
Life is too short for all the drama.
2007-01-17 00:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by jetero41 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, here's what to do: Don't call your girlfriend stupid. Second, get over the jealousy bit. It's not attractive.
2007-01-17 00:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jayna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't need to read anything more of your explanation once i see you say your girl "is stupid sometimes"....
maybe this guy would treat your girl better than you do...she doesn't ever deserve to be called stupid...she deserves a lot more respect than that...
you're the problem
2007-01-17 00:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by an_articulate_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lmao, umm just go up to him and let no kindly to chill with all of that...no need to have a dance off,lol
2007-01-17 00:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just all get together and "party". That will solve all problems, you're over complicating things... just fcuk everyone damn it!
2007-01-17 00:44:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone....tell your gf how it makes you feel and ask her to tell him to leave her alone.....then trust her unless or until she gives you reason not to....don't get between her and her best gf...you might just lose...good luck
2007-01-17 00:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋