I have always thought theres something twisted about a man who pays for a prostitute to have sex. I am a single female and im hoping to find a right man, but I fear generally men think its ok to sleep around with escorts or prostitutes and I cant ever trust a man. Are most men really like this?? Or will I ever find a guy who thinks like me?
2007-01-17 00:38:13 · 17 answers · asked by Kittykat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If i ever found out my man was doing this it would be so over!!!! And i would find myself a lover too!!
2007-01-17 00:44:44 · update #1
Most men are sick.
I would never pay for sex so we are not all bad.
I have gotten to the point where I don't want to sleep with a girl until I have an established relationship with her. I feel similar to you ... I don't think I can find a woman that thinks as I do in this issue. Society seems based on sex and they think waiting for the 3rd date is a long time and 3 months would be eternity. Not that I wouldn't have desire to, but would rather have a emotional and mentally stimulating relationship first.
So ... don't lose hope, just be picky.
2007-01-17 01:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by just another guy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It takes a rational and smart man to understand that this is wrong. I do not stand for this activity and I believe that anyone who thinks this way is odd.
I honestly don't understand why men hire these partners. But I believe that one would have to be very, very lonely for them to share their body with some body that could possibly be drugged and soul tormented? Also, I don't believe that money earned by most of these workers goes towards survival as opposed to addiction and other unethical means.
Also, in this part of the country, a prostitute's associates can chase after a john long after the transaction. I am talking gangs and organized crime. And I haven't even touched the risk of getting busted by the police - and you can lose your car here if you get busted. I could only imagine the implications especially if it makes the news. Or the risk of STD's. As for escorts, well this woman in my bowling league is a psychic and she told me that the escorts here charge outrageous rates.
I may be single and unattached. But prostitution is not the solution. You're not alone.
2007-01-20 20:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men don't sleep with prostitutes or escorts and you will find that just as many men cheat as women. I'm sure you will find a nice man some day, just be patient and don't lower your standards.
2007-01-17 00:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are assuming a lot. Most men would probably not use a prostitute, first because of the disease factor and secondly because they are sleezy and there is no real affection there. A man wants love and affection just as a woman does.
2007-01-17 00:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will definitely find a man with your morals and values. I've known men who cheat but I've known more men who don't cheat. Most men are NOT like that even though it seems that way. There are some really wonderful men out there but they are usually hard to find. Good luck!
2007-01-17 00:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jayna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a ( prostitute ) man only would use a ( prostitute ) woman .
and yes ALMOST all men would do ..
but don't miss hope .. life is wide , and you probably will find the right man ..
2007-01-17 00:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by horras 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you've stated i might want to say you've somewhat no probability of having an enduring monogamous relationship with him. If it truly is what you want you should decrease your losses. yet try to be confident about what you want. in my opinion i might want to by no ability be companions with someone who became no longer both honest and honest with me and which ability honest about their maximum secret needs. From what you write i might want to say he's neither honest nor honest. and clearly you may and could forgive him and once you've performed that tell him why you may't imagine of bringing up a relations jointly. toddlers want honesty and trustworthiness more effective than adults and the consequences even as they locate out a figure is failing in something so common are dire.
2016-10-15 08:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all guys do not do this. i for one have not and will never even think about sleeping with a prostitute. it is disgusting. i am sure that sooner or later you will find a man you can trust and love.
2007-01-17 01:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prostitutes are easy, cheap and convenient. They dont nag, they give him what he wants and that's it. You don't want a guy that pays for sex anyways. Be patient, you will find a man.
2007-01-17 00:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men do this, but it seems that the ones that do, do it over and over. If you believe your friend is doing this, trust me thare are a lot of better men out there.
Guys that do this either cannot communicate or don't want to.
2007-01-17 00:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by The 5 pound Robin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋