2007-01-17 00:22:48 · 17 answers · asked by durga v 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
LET TIME TAKE CARE OF HIM.
2007-01-18 03:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a parent can try and teach their child right from wrong, but their friends and peers can influence them negatively.
I would sit down your child and express your concerns about their attitude and their life.
Is the child on drugs? This can change a child's attitude drastically. Are there problems at home or at school?
It's important to keep the lines of communication open with your child. Talking with, not to your child is very important.
Good luck.
2007-01-17 00:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being peace full..it means give up your(MY) interpretation that "something is wrong".If i am peace full my attitude to my son or daughter will change..One can change attitude is the biggest invention ..son or daughter are the way they ..They are Will Love them no matter what! I will be able to separate the thing that what I don't like is his behaviour..not my son ..I like him ..I love him..when I got this I use to communicate.. Dear son ( with eye cotact) I love U..What I did not like your behaviour of not doing homework..I love u my son & I am in your support..It was very easy to make him wrong .invalidate him.. I was very right & iused to get angry over him..Cost of being angry..lossing love for him.Beng peacefull has helped me lot By communicating straight..has helped lot..latter on i used to communicate the the which i liked abuot him again with eye cotact .& in love capsule..it works..latter on we about "ghar sabha"...in which we used to sit togather.. We pray. we chant a dhoon" raghupati raghav raja Ram"..& We all r living very happily..Love u all ..
2007-01-18 20:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mahesh S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old method of beating is must; Curtail the unwanted friendship. Be strict ;otherwise you will give a worst citizen to the country.
2007-01-17 21:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by vijayakumar n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can advice you from my personal exp.I think u shud become his/her frnd at the very first stage.Involve yourself in their activities without losing ur patient.Remember its a test for u too.start valuing those thing of theirs which according to you is worthless.Spend as much as time u can with them.u shud sound quite interesting to them.Never try to act as a teacher to them but an adviser who cares.B nice to them,respect them and u wud get the same in return.Come down to their level of knowledge.Never give up.If they does anything wrong never scold them but make them realise that u r really upset with that.I hope that it wud help u alot.Best of luck!
2007-01-17 00:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by tamali_g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with love and do not be harsh to them. Try to understand
their problem and solve them with great care and affection.
2007-01-17 01:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them their arrogance will get them no where with you nor does it impress you. If they want attitude, you will show them attitude.
2007-01-17 00:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut them off your help for somew time and let them look after themselves for a time period. Tell them that it is to judge how good they are at having a successful life and review their performance along with them after that period.
2007-01-20 03:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont have that problem with my children they know if I get mad then the world is ending. I have taught them from an early age to listen.()
2007-01-17 00:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget on the subject of the approach and take care of them as low as conceivable, retaining professionalism and courtesy. purely because of the fact they % to be an unsightly twit would not advise I ought to achieve this besides.
2016-10-31 08:36:58 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright!actually,i only know one surefire solution to this:talk. Talk w/ him or her and tell that person how he/she is acting. just sit down,let him/her relax and tell him/her to open up to you and tell you why this person is acting like this. usually, it is people get influenced by the other people around them so you might want to talk to them too.
I hope this helps! Good luck!
2007-01-17 00:31:53 · answer #11 · answered by lindsay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋