and maybe you had a crush on him too?!.....
2007-01-17 00:28:33 · 10 answers · asked by #1mary! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whether both of you have "crushes" on each other, please remember your "best friend". Long after the boy is gone, your best friend will remain, but not if you get involved with her boyfriend. Should they break up and some time has passed (like she has a new boyfriend) she might tell you that it would be fine, but until that happens you should consider him off limits. Alot of times, guys (girls too) find themselves attracted to their girlfriends friends. For one reason is that you probably spend equally amounts of time with him as she does. Your friend doesn't want to sacrifice her friendship with you by spending all her time with him. Be respectful of her. Think of how it would make you feel if the shoe was on the other foot.
2007-01-17 00:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lemme help u
jsy say u aint got a crush on him
i wud tell my bestfriend b4 the whole thing gets out of hand
like he starts to stalk u n keeps tellin u ow much he prefers you n nt ur friend n then eventually ask u out
if ur friend finds out u lose ur friendship with her over some stupid guy u dnt evn have a crush on
so as long as he belongs to ur friend hez not urs
n if they breakup, dnt evn go out with him bcos then u r evn betrayin ur friend
2007-01-17 08:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by letiesha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. That would be pretty mean to your best friend. Tough situation but I would not act on it. Until things are over for both of them...even then I would get approval from your best friend.
2007-01-17 08:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by winslow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldn't take the chance cause if he was my best Friend and this girl like me but we both liked her i wouldn't take the chance so that i don't rune the friendship with the other person because friendship is about loyalty and i wouldn't know how long it would last it could last a while but then i gave my other friendship up so i would have to go and hang out with every one else
2007-01-17 08:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by chongo89478 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd let him know I don't mess around with any of my friend's boyfriends and he is not someone I will make an exception for.
2007-01-17 08:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'll ask him first n if he really had a crush on me,then i'll try to avoid him..i dun wna b a backstabber..even if i had a crush on him too..but breaking my bestfren's hart?no way..no guy worths that..even if the guy is hot or watever..i'll try my very best to avoid him n try to cover up,so that my bestfriend won't be suspicious..
2007-01-17 08:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by Strange 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to step back. Take a deep breath, look at where you are, and you'll realise there are things that are worth risking and things that aren't.
2007-01-17 09:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by Hulabaloola 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation...ended up bein with that guy...but then me and him broke up coz he cheated on me with the other gal after a while...
makes sure u get to kno wat he's like...but if she's ur friend..u should stay away...dun make the same mistake as i did
2007-01-17 08:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by Forever happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with him and dont let your best friend know.
2007-01-17 08:33:23 · answer #9 · answered by kels 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sacrifice!
2007-01-17 08:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by vishwa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋