Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

My sister got married in the courthouse 4 years ago without any kind of celebration. I just had a traditional Church Wedding a few months ago(which my husband and i paid for) and now she has decided to renew her vows. She is going to pretty much have the Church Wedding she never had. Which she should have done from the beginning. We are all happy for her but very frustrated too. She is expecting all the parents to pay for the whole celebration. She also wants a Bridal Shower. Being that she is already married i think her and her husband should be responsible to pay for the whole thing. I'm very confused? Her husband even helped her pick out her wedding gown. Now I am planning her shower but wondering if I am doing the right thing?

2007-01-15 09:36:55 · 19 answers · asked by sara 1 in Weddings

I've been wanting to give my man a rim job but I have no idea how to ask him.....any advice on how to ask...what would you say if your girl asked youand have you ever had this done to you

2007-01-15 09:36:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please dont say you walk on clouds all the time cause that is not realistic...I have always been in drama filled relationships and finally I am in a normal one (I still think about my ****** ex for some stupid reason) and I just want to know what it feels like to be in a normal relationship....Maybe I am in love right now....Does commitment, attracting and trust = love?????

So confused

2007-01-15 09:35:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I will sit right beside him and talk on here and he reads my chats. I dont mind him reading them because i am always talking about him and my kids. But why is he so jealous of it? I dont understand why he can play on line and talk to others but i cant? Any advice would be great or just some encouragement will do.

2007-01-15 09:35:10 · 22 answers · asked by tjamesmomof4 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a real quiet girl at school and Im only my self when Im around my friends. but Im real quiet when Im around males, Its not because I like them, Its just the way I am. Is that a plus? or a turn off ?

2007-01-15 09:34:14 · 16 answers · asked by L.Rae 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 09:34:05 · 11 answers · asked by Marianita 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend will have been going out 3years 2moro. which is cool but since we are skint from xmas and we dont get paid til thursday we are stuck for what to do.

we cant afford a takeaway or even a dvd rental.

we dont have alot of food in the fridge so we cant cook a nice meal.

apart from sex (which will happen)

what else can we do 2moro evening?

2007-01-15 09:33:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents just found out i drink and now their disappointed in me bc they expected better of me bc i kno what they went thru with my brother nd sister..but i jus started and had only few sips that night ..im considering just tellin them im gonna move in with my bf..i love my parents nd would never intentially hurt them but they give me not much freedom which has caused me to rebel alittle bit..i work all the time nd on my days off which is only twice a week i wanna hang out w/ my friends as much as possible but im 17 but18 in 2 weeks nd have to be home by 930 on school nites, nd 10 mayb if im lucky 11 on the weekends..i just want to be a kid im still responsible tho ..what should i do about my parents..how should i talk to them abot this?

2007-01-15 09:33:19 · 4 answers · asked by jackie<3 1 in Family

I feel like my guy is telling me that I dont love the guy I am with but I really do. I want to be with him for the rest of my life but for some reason I think I am making myself believe alll these thoughts in my head.....

Has anyone NOT followed their gut and ended up happy with that same person?

2007-01-15 09:33:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am from Massachusetts and my husband is from Oklahoma. I lived in OK for 8 years (how I met him) and 2 years ago my husband, son, and myself moved back to my home town in MA. Since living here, I have finally been going to college for the past year and I love the school I am in- I would rather finish here. My husband hates it here and wants to move back to OK in April, but I don't feel ready. I like it there, but all of my family is here. (and his are all there) Anyone in my life has a personal input, so can someone help me out here?

2007-01-15 09:32:04 · 29 answers · asked by Crys* 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i left her house one day and she just hugged me. i wanted to kiss her. we've already kissed once before. and i dnt want to force it. what should i do? GIRLS HELP!!!

2007-01-15 09:31:59 · 7 answers · asked by adam c 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have had sex every week for the past 8months i have already had my period because i am 14years old

2007-01-15 09:31:31 · 28 answers · asked by linlid m 1 in Singles & Dating

what are somethings that secretly
make a girl hot
like the unobvious things

2007-01-15 09:31:06 · 23 answers · asked by Katieee M 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 09:30:56 · 18 answers · asked by uglyyyyy 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in a TERRIBLE relationship with my ex and even if he were to ask me back to this day it may be hard to say NO but I would 100%. He was my first love and its been about a year..But I am also in another relationship and I care this guys ALOT...How am I supposed to get the asshole out of my mind and move on with the new guy?

I feel like jealousy is so much stronger than love...Maybe this is what love is supposed to feel like and maybe I was just jealous of my last bf....Any suggestions?

2007-01-15 09:30:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok....I am 17 and he is 23...yeah i know BIG GAP! I work with him and we talk a lot. I email him and he emails me back and forth even though were like 1 door away from eachother. I have fallen for him really really hard and he seems to like me too but im not sure. He always makes eye contact and he picks on me (in a joking way)...and last friday i think it was we were taking christmas stuff to the storage trailor outside...and he told me to shut the door and he started asking me about an ex boyfriend and then he started putting on chapstik...i was getting nervous and i knew he could tell...did he wanna kiss me or am i over analyzing...then a few months back i emailed him and said something like BAH! and he replied back with a GUH! which um spells hug backwards...am i going crazy here...does he liike me???? HELP ME! But then i texted him and he told me not to...but on monday acted as if nothing happened. I dont know...please give your thoughts! Thanks! email is pinkypink4ever1990@yahoo

2007-01-15 09:30:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've been together for 3 years but we fight constantly. we're very different.... different race, he's athiest and I'm catholic, I want kids and he doesn't, I have morals and his are lax. Why can't i just leave him? everytime i try, it feels like i can't breathe.

2007-01-15 09:30:06 · 10 answers · asked by Jae Lynn 4 in Singles & Dating

guys?? what quilities do you like in girls?

2007-01-15 09:28:01 · 11 answers · asked by Pookie 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm studying abroad in France this year and it's hard to stay thin when everything is so new and exciting!!! I saw my mom over winter break, and she always has this way of making me feel like I'm at the bottom of the world. She creates a rivalry between me and my sister about who is skinnier, prettier, smarter, more successful etc. I gained 14 pounds and I'm a size 6 and she calls me obese. Is that normal? I'm 5'4-5'5 I'm starting to really take to heart what she says and it brings me to this really dark place. As much as i don't care, I really do care about what she thinks. Let me just say 2 years ago her comments made me go and I diet and i became anorexic....what to do what to do

2007-01-15 09:27:49 · 20 answers · asked by maddi 2 in Family

2007-01-15 09:27:04 · 10 answers · asked by ktpartygril 1 in Singles & Dating

my dad is getting married again (second wedding) next month and my sister and I and our 2 soon-to-be stepsisters are standing up for the wedding. the problem is we all can get different dresses but the choices are everyone gets cranberry or everyone gets black. the only way we can get the same color cranberry dress is from bridal stores for $150 but my dad doesnt want to spend that much and his fiances daughters and the bride really want that color. my dad and my sister and I want black so everyone can get a dress we can wear again and we would all have a closer color match and it would be cheaper. what do you think? the idea of 2 wearing black and 2 wearing cranberry isnt an option.

2007-01-15 09:26:46 · 17 answers · asked by flutterflie04 5 in Weddings

ok is it weird that my MOH's dress is the same as all the bridesmaids? I was thinking maybe she can be the only one to wear gloves? And ill rpobably have her boquet a little different then the others. Also....PROBLEM but my fiances sister wanted to be in the wedding which she should. Shes 12 years old and i didnt really want her as a Jr bridesmaid i already had 5 girls 5 guys ya know so i said screw it ill have a 12 year old flower girl shes still little lol. Well i guess she kind of gets buthurt cause shes not a bridesmaids whuch i think is stupid dont be stubborn ya know.....well so when all us girls went to look and buy their dresses guess what. SHE is in the same dress as the bridesmaids. What do you think about this and what can i do to make her look a littel bit different and girlie WITH the same dress!?!?

2007-01-15 09:26:43 · 7 answers · asked by Ambersgettingmarried 1 in Weddings

OK my husband and his mom and dad are fighting over something that even shouldn't be fighting over. I know I should stay out of it but I just worry I don't like drama. What should I do? NO RUDE anwsers Please

2007-01-15 09:25:54 · 11 answers · asked by dreamer 2 in Family

2007-01-15 09:25:30 · 15 answers · asked by dedo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

other than your spouse or ex-spouse

2007-01-15 09:25:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im getting those scary dreams that i forget to get the hair appoinment and the day before the wedding im calling around and no one can fit me in. Also that i forget to get my nails done and all the nail places are closed and cant do it till saturday and im telling the people well i get married tomorrow and they say sorry we are closed after them. Then that i dont have my shoes for the dress and the bolero jacket for the dress is done ALL wrong one sleeve is short and the other long. HEEEELLLPPP!!!! Im soooo nervous i cant sleep much anymore. Any ideas on how i can relax. :(

2007-01-15 09:25:13 · 7 answers · asked by Happy Mommy 3 in Weddings

my question is do I have any entitlement to this house as my name is not on the title. Though this house has had a major turn around since I moved in.
Before I lived here his mom lived in it and it was a total pigstye, i mean dog crap, cat crap on the floor, piss in the rugs, flies, dirt even black mold.
You name it, I have pictures to prove what this house looked like before I moved in it.
Now it looks like a million bucks compared to what is was before. I believe I have been the motivating factor in getting him to make his house 100x better, but he tells me this is not my house in a fight but when we are getting along he says its "our" house.
My only proof of living here for the last 3 years is the taxes( I filed with him) and the phone bill which is in my name and any mail I get sent here.
I have also been the only person to help (not even his friends) with the renovation. we are breaking up and I dont want to walk away broke as I helped him turnthishousearoundforthelast3 y

2007-01-15 09:25:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 5'9 and it seems like looking back in my life that short guys are always attracted to tall women why is that, i just can't stand it, do tall men really just like petite women like already asked today???

2007-01-15 09:24:44 · 9 answers · asked by m_faery 2 in Singles & Dating

When a man talks dirty during sex, what should we be talking about. Whatever the majority of women answer, that's what i'm going to do tonite with wifey, so be honest. What say you freaks?

2007-01-15 09:24:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so here's the deal...

In the past, my boyfriend and I have made out really just in places outside (in the park, by fountains at night, etc.)

A couple weeks ago, we were in my house and I had to get something from my room, so he came with me. When we got through the door, we started kissing and he sortof eased my shirt up a little and tried to move us towards my bed. This took me by surprise and I was a little uncomfortable with the situation then, so I was like "come on we've got to go" and got what I needed and left the room.

My boyfriend is coming over to my house again this weekend because there are these movies we want to watch. We'll probably watch them in my room. I really feel now like I'm comfortable with it and want to up things to the next level (like making out on my bed without a shirt or some feeling you know) How can I let him know this in a cute/sexy way without telling him in words? like how can I let him know when I start kissing him and stuff

2007-01-15 09:23:01 · 20 answers · asked by dani 8 1 in Singles & Dating