Im a real quiet girl at school and Im only my self when Im around my friends. but Im real quiet when Im around males, Its not because I like them, Its just the way I am. Is that a plus? or a turn off ?
2007-01-15 09:34:14 · 16 answers · asked by L.Rae 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on the guy
2007-01-15 09:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be either, depending on the degree to which you are quiet. If you hardly say a word, it can definately be a turn off. However, if you talk a little, he may see you as mysterious and be more inclined to find out more about you. It can work either way. Hope that helps!
2007-01-15 17:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by James 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are ok with it but most guys would rather have a girl who is more open and that they're able to have a decent conversation with without having to drag every word out of her but then to the other extreme guys dont want a girl who never stops talking so find a balance between the two and stick with it
2007-01-15 17:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some point in your life you will come out of being so quiet.
2007-01-15 17:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by J J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it depends. I like a quiet confident woman but a quiet timid woman doesnt intrigue anyone.
2007-01-15 17:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
playing mind games with dudes gets boring unless you are in preschool in that case i'd pull your pony tail. Shy girls are hot sometimes because they come out of their shell when you get'm alone. but to a kid it might be cute and interesting or even boring
2007-01-15 17:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by tex-mex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I figure she has no personality. I mean if I spend time and think about it then I know she is probably shy, but when a girl doesn't talk my first impression is she is probably boring.
2007-01-15 17:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called innocence and that attracts allot of males fast. So watch out.
2007-01-15 17:38:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am quiet girl. In my school, boys like wild girls so I guess they don't like me.
2007-01-15 17:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!! drives us crazy haha why are girls soo damn complicated and think soo damn much seriously. Its not really a turn off or a plus it just drives us crazy lol
take care
2007-01-15 17:38:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's very sweet! i am pretty quiet too....and,uh,guys seem to love me tons.lol but anyway,it depends on the guy.but, most of them kinda find themselves driven to those girls,they seem mysterious.i think,i don't know now....
2007-01-15 17:40:34 · answer #11 · answered by Bluntness 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋