2007-01-15 09:25:30 · 15 answers · asked by dedo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give her time to adjust to everything.
2007-01-15 09:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by MD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife did the exact same thing. Be nice to her. My wife actually said how do you do that? I am mean to you all the time and all you are is nice to me. I told her that I was not mad at her and that I loved her. I did the dishes - the laundry - I cooked - I cleaned - I helped with the baby. Then she said that she was not happy and wanted a divorce. I helped her move out, and assembled furniture for her and gave her household tools and granted her the divorce. I got the house -three cars and she now pays me child support because I got 50/50 custody and she earns a little more than I do.
If I could have stayed married to her and have her be happy I would have. Good Luck.
2007-01-15 18:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a baby is a HUGE change in the dynamic of the house. It will take a while for everyone to make the adjustment. Have patience and work WITH your wife to make the transition as smooth as possible. It takes more effort for a household to function with kids, but it's definitely worth it. Stop thinking solely about what your wife isn't doing for you. What are you not doing for her. It's a two-way street. Don't get run over by coming to a stop in the middle.
2007-01-15 17:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to counseling. First go alone and then ask your wife if she'll join you. You just had a child together so you should try to make it work. Are you treating HER well? Do you help her with the baby and the household chores? Do you give her foot massages and let her rest and take breaks when you are around? Maybe she isn't treating you well because she is unhappy with your relationship.
2007-01-15 17:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you need to realize something, it's not just the 2 of you anymore, the baby is going to take alot of her time, and you need to realize that the baby comes first right now. And the baby is going to get most of her attention.
If your saying she's not giving you sex right now, well having a baby is quite traumatic on a woman's body and she needs time to heal and to try and get rest.
Quit thinking about yourself and help her with the baby, and think about her and her feelings and needs and the needs of your baby before thinking of yourself.
2007-01-15 17:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your saying your wife isnt good to you as in she not having sex with you at the moment consider this..she just pushed a baby through where you want to poke around!
She might be anixous about not being good at it anymore, she might think she not attractive to you anymore cause her body isnt the same anymore. Its more then likely not you, she is feeling less like her self. You need to make her feel special and loved then she will be "good" to you. But you need to make a extra special effort.
2007-01-15 17:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by aime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to your wife and see if there is anything you can do to improve your relationship and get over your problems. if it doesnt work out remember its not always best to stay together "for the children" it only makes them suffer and they are unhappy because mommy and daddy are and they also, in turn, grow up thinking they should be unhappy if there are kids involved
2007-01-15 17:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess what Daddy? Her world doesn't revolve around YOU anymore. It revolves around the BABY. Why do "men" freak out. Do you realize that you are jealous of your own baby?
2007-01-15 17:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
TALK to your wife! Tell her why she is not treating you well. You cant just run off with your son. COMMUNICATION WITH YOUR WIFE IS KEY TO YOUR MARRIAGE.
2007-01-15 17:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seek counseling with your wife.
2007-01-15 17:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shoot her if its legal 'LOL" Just kidding. If she don't love you.there's nothing you can do.Don't chase after her and man up.Let her know if you love her and tell her .If she don't love you tell her your keeping the baby and she can go, maybe she might change.
2007-01-15 17:36:22 · answer #11 · answered by cactusjoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋