Ok....I am 17 and he is 23...yeah i know BIG GAP! I work with him and we talk a lot. I email him and he emails me back and forth even though were like 1 door away from eachother. I have fallen for him really really hard and he seems to like me too but im not sure. He always makes eye contact and he picks on me (in a joking way)...and last friday i think it was we were taking christmas stuff to the storage trailor outside...and he told me to shut the door and he started asking me about an ex boyfriend and then he started putting on chapstik...i was getting nervous and i knew he could tell...did he wanna kiss me or am i over analyzing...then a few months back i emailed him and said something like BAH! and he replied back with a GUH! which um spells hug backwards...am i going crazy here...does he liike me???? HELP ME! But then i texted him and he told me not to...but on monday acted as if nothing happened. I dont know...please give your thoughts! Thanks! email is pinkypink4ever1990@yahoo
2007-01-15 09:30:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are 17 and he is 23. You are at very different places in your lives. My guess is that, if anything, he might just want to get inside your pants. You should respect yourself more than that. Don't date anyone seriously until you are in a place in your life that you are ready to get married and settle down. That probably won't be for at least another few years for you. Beware!
2007-01-15 09:36:56 · answer #1 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be playing you. He may like you but once he gets you he will be done with you, so be very careful with this whole thing. Guys sometimes don't care if they hurt someone. and if this happens to you, then you have to work with him, with a broken heart and your fun of flirting will be over. I would just ride along with it all and see where it takes you. Cuz I guess you won't know til you see what happens but let him make the moves so you don't look hard up or anything. Good luck!'
Don't worry about the age difference, i was 15 and dated a guy 23 for 5 years. it's all in the mind!
2007-01-15 17:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by nalerij 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure what to say. You should talk to him....well at least try. I know its kinda akward ofr something like that. Ask him if he has a girlfriend.......i dont know. Keep in touch with him and maybe in a year you can date him. Or hey heres a wild idea date someone and start making out in front of him and see if he gets jealous.....ok a little drastic, I know. Maybe he just likes picking on you. For instance there are some of my brothers friends who are like 4 or 5 yrs older than me who do that alot. I know they are just kidding so maybe he is to . I dont want to make you depressed so my answer is yes he is totally in love with you.....
2007-01-15 17:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by shortmalla234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he likes you, but he could also just be playing with you. Guys tend to like teasing younger girls, but that doesn't mean that they necessarily want to start a relationship. Even if he does like you, then he is probably a little concerned about the fact that you are only 17. Just be content with being friends for now, and if he really does like you, then he'll probably make a move once you turn 18.
2007-01-15 17:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by engineergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think... you should continue talking to him and finding out more about him and his personal life like if he has a girlfriend or not (it's kinda weird he told you not to text him). There is a possibility that he likes you even if your age difference is 6 years.
My cousin is 16 and her boyfriend is 22 and they are as happy as can be! He isn't with her just to get in her pants either. He is 100% in love with her and she is 100% in love with him also.
The age difference doesn't matter at all. I'm not exactly sure if he likes you... thats kinda hard to tell. But just be careful with him, I mean make sure he doesn't just want one thing from you. Guys his age usually only want to get in your pants or they already have girlfriends that are more their age and just enjoy flirting with other girls whether those girls are younger or not.
2007-01-15 18:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful♥Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey....you're 17..he's 23...this is a no brainer!!! He wants to get in ur pants..and he is going to flatter his way to it.... Please wake up and smell the after shave.... If he were really, trruly, no games into you..then he would be up front and you wouldn't be guessing.
2007-01-15 17:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he liked you then you wouldn't have to ask. Why did he tell you not to text him? Does he have a girlfriend?
2007-01-15 17:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you but if he told you not to text him then he probably has another woman.
2007-01-15 17:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by CAITLIN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! Never fish of the company dock!
2007-01-15 17:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by mke_vck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could like you, but not for total sure. GIve it some time.
2007-01-15 17:35:37 · answer #10 · answered by lil_danca06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋