Please dont say you walk on clouds all the time cause that is not realistic...I have always been in drama filled relationships and finally I am in a normal one (I still think about my ****** ex for some stupid reason) and I just want to know what it feels like to be in a normal relationship....Maybe I am in love right now....Does commitment, attracting and trust = love?????
So confused
2007-01-15 09:35:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It isnt work or a chore to be with that person. SIMPLE. If you feel you have to try hard or change, its not right.
2007-01-15 09:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by rowdy rick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word I would describe for a "normal" relationship is....easy. It's easy. You want to be together, there is no drama, you look forward to being together. And you are right - there is a mundane quality to it much of the time - but that means nothing is wrong! I spent years in drama-filled relationships that left me confused, unhappy, and sick to my stomach. That is not love - it's obsession, neediness, and an inability to recognize what my needs are in a man and in a relationship.
Get the drama out of your life, and you will be amazed at how cool relationships can be. How easy they can be.
2007-01-15 17:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a 'normal' relationship means trust and loyalty. One of the other posters said that it is easy, but I don't think that is true, either. B/c life is not perfect nor is it a bed of roses. There are gonna be times when problems arise, but if you trust in your partner and you can communicate w/ them, then you will be okay in the long run. You will know how to work through anything that arises.
2007-01-15 17:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by ksueditz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called completeness. Live and let live.
Enjoy life as it is. face the day with a cup of Coffee that my wife makes me and we eat breakfast and joke and laugh.
The old argue and bad times is over. I'm too old for that garbage and so is she.
We have matured in love and know what we are after and want. I just don't want to start over again if I lose her for any reason and so we live and that works just fine for us. She's one of a kind.
2007-01-15 17:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your bf/gf listens to you and you guys hang out.
2007-01-15 17:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by L.Rae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋