Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

Just wondering if any one made theire guys dressed as a girl for haloween or just for fun or what ever and is it a turn on to see a guy dressed as a girl? I made my hubby do it for haloween and it was funny to see him dressed as a **** but he has a thin body so he didnt look to bad lol and he wouldnt mind doing it again haha

2007-01-15 09:58:18 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley A 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so i have been dating and talking to this person for a few weeks now, After the first week she told me that she was still talking to some other people, she told me that she likes to date a lil before commited to someone to know what she is getting into, which i understood. It is hard on me right now because i like her so much, she up until my confusion meant the world to me, we have a great time together, she will do nice things, visit me and bring me treats at work, but it is wierd, she either acts like she is totally into me and then the next minute, she disapears and talks to me differently, it goes back and forth, should i let it be, or should i just leave it alone and pretend that the whole experience and feelings that i felt for her never existed?? any advice, or ideas of why she is playing with my mind and heart?

2007-01-15 09:58:11 · 4 answers · asked by lonely_mike21 2 in Singles & Dating

one reply got me thinking. what if he does want to be friends only.We dont do intimate,

hav'nt for ages. going to start counselling again to work on the pysical side of our relationship.He is all for it so i know he wants to be with me and loves me or he wouldnt want to try.

2007-01-15 09:57:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A really handsome man at my church started having conversations with me about a month ago. We've been at this church for at least 6 years now and I never noticed him because he was married. He's now divorced, with a 4 yr old son. This man talks a lot when we have conversations but he's never shown me any clear signs that he's interested in anything more than conversations. Although when he sees me he seems really excited and initiates the conversation. Yet, he hasn't asked for my telephone number or for a date. I've tried to give him clues that I'm interested; for instance, he likes dancing and eating fine food. I told him I went to a restaurant that have both but I couldn't dance because I didn't have a partner. Hint, hint? I don't know what to do, any suggestions?

2007-01-15 09:57:02 · 12 answers · asked by prazdancr4501 1 in Singles & Dating

Heya! Well thing is, i'm in 2nd year college and i've always been friends with this guy in my class. I thought nothing of it until recently. Just before christmas, we were at a class party and we spent most of the night talking in the night-club, when we went dancing, he held me and started kissing me. During the xmas hols, we went on another night out with 2 friends, and we kissed again for the entire night.

Nothing more was mentioned after. Now that we're back in college again after the holidays, we do seem to talk a bit more. I just dont know does he actually like me or was it just nothing cause i'm beginning to like him quite a lot now but I dont know should I try anything as if he didnt like me, the next two years in class might be awkward!!

2007-01-15 09:56:58 · 10 answers · asked by cork_lass_19 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay if you have read any of my previous questions then you'll know my boyfriend broke up with me about 2 weeks ago...this past friday his best friend came up to me and said that he thinks im getting hotter but he got a new gf the day after he told me i was out! Why did he tell his friends this? What does it mean?

2007-01-15 09:56:30 · 15 answers · asked by Zee 2 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to plan a romantic evening for my boyfriend. We are getting married when he comes in from R&R. So far I have a limo to pick him up at the airport, going straight to a hot tub room at a hotel, where I will have fondue and wine and for dessert chocolate fondue. I am trying to make this a night to remember. Got any ideas for me?

2007-01-15 09:55:58 · 11 answers · asked by taken2007 2 in Singles & Dating

I was seeing this guy for a while we broke up but keep geting together well this time he broke if off and i went to his house to get my things and we layed on the fioor and we ended up having sex .
He told me he dose not want things to go back the way things wair and i dont eather .but he told me he stills cares alot about me.He knows i love him and at one time he told me he loved me too!
We are broke up but we still email each other and he tells me he dose miss me but cant deal with a commitent right now .
I was not giving he space and that made him crazy .I really love him and i dont want to lose him what can i do? When we are together we always hold eachother and some times make love .
We have never gone more than a week with out taking or being together and now i feel like i lost my best friend.
I have been thinking about moving to FL for a while and befor when i told him he was really sad &told me he was going to miss me alot!! What do i do ?

2007-01-15 09:55:28 · 3 answers · asked by Hart 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel very vulnerable,sad,depressed because my life is a mess,chaos,i have no control over my kids(kids). What could i tell him ? I'll be too embarrassed to tell him the truth.What should i say ?

2007-01-15 09:55:04 · 5 answers · asked by dersexy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when i say off and on i mean we get together andthen we breake up

2007-01-15 09:54:45 · 8 answers · asked by gamer_king_2007 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 09:54:22 · 20 answers · asked by o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been talking for about a month, and really haven't gone on a date. I met her at the bar, and that has been the only place i have seen her. The only talking we have done is over the phone. I don't really like her for a relationship, and she is making more of an effort than I am.

2007-01-15 09:54:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Shes always yelling at me for no reason. She doesn't listen to my side of the story. I went to the movies with some friends the other day and my phone was on silent so i didn't know she called. And when I did check it, it didn't say any missed calls or anything, because the theatre has HORRIBLE reception. So I got in the car and got screamed at that I didn't call her back.
Then she says that I'm a selfish b**** and it makes me want to die,..b/c I knoe im not that way. I dont like it b/c I cry too easily. Then she tells me to come give her a hug like nothing happened. All she does is critisie me and yell at me. What do I do?!

2007-01-15 09:54:01 · 8 answers · asked by miseryxlane 2 in Family

We were really close, at one time. For a lot of years. he says he is busy alot. I guess he may be too busy to be friends anymore. Should I give up?

2007-01-15 09:53:56 · 19 answers · asked by SmokyJD 2 in Family

I'm writing an essay about attraction and I need some women opinions... What is the most sexy thing you find in a man??? A normal guy, please... not B. Pitt or J. Depp!!!

2007-01-15 09:53:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What can I talk to her about? Besides movies and music. Everyone I asked said movies and music...

2007-01-15 09:53:42 · 4 answers · asked by Jagman S 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my [guy]friend hang out allll the time. I am the only girl that he really hangs out with. He has a girlfriend, but they never really talk, and she is out of the country for the year. He frequently tells me that the only reason he is still with her is because he doesn't think he'd be able to find another girlfriend "in his league". I don't know if I should take that as a compliment, insult, or nothing? Sometimes I think that maybe there is something between us...I am too scared of rejection to really do anything about it. If I get nervous I sometimes start talking about guys in general, like if a hot one came into my work or something. He gets a little quiet, but nothing extreme. I'm not worried about "ruining the friendship", since it has lived through a lot of things like this. I just don't really know where I stand, if I am being rediculous? Yet we are always together...any opinions are much appriciated.

2007-01-15 09:53:25 · 2 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Singles & Dating

would you like to come home and have your man give you a relaxing, soothing leg/foot massage? Would you mind having a guys hands all over your silky nylon covered legs and feet? Sure would give you incentive to wear nylons and heels for your guy and come home early huh??!!

2007-01-15 09:53:20 · 5 answers · asked by phfan5 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm writing an essay about attraction and I need some women opinions... What is the most sexy thing you find in a man??? A normal guy, please... not B. Pitt or J. Depp!!!

2007-01-15 09:52:47 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 09:52:12 · 5 answers · asked by Jason 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends say it is ish to go out with a 17 years old when i am only 14, but he is sooo sweet and would never pressure me.. i don't know wheter to say yes to him or not.... PLZ HELP!!!

2007-01-15 09:51:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Seriously are they any guys outthere who look actually like vin diesel,or a kind a like??? that's right go to the mirror and look at yourself....

2007-01-15 09:51:45 · 10 answers · asked by m_faery 2 in Singles & Dating

what should i do when i gave up everything for my boyfriend- grades, friends, dance class, family, everything. but now after a few months i just dont know if i want to be it the relationship. he expects me to do stuff, he lies, breaks promises, and gets drunk/hing every week(which i dont do or aprove of) but i cant break up with him cause i have nothing back to go to. what do i do??

2007-01-15 09:51:23 · 20 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Singles & Dating

Im not sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing!Sometimes I'm really shy but sometimes I'm wild!(not too wild!)
But alot of guys like too bug me sometimes and there only certian guys!Im not sure if its beacuse they like me or they like picking on me!(playful)Sometimes its funny but sometimes its really irrating!I asked my freinds they say they like me is it true?

2007-01-15 09:51:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so my bf and I got to second base for the first time..
and so we were making out and he took my shirt/bra off
so at first we were just kissing but his hands were on my boobs.
so then he started kissing my neck which was normal but then he made his way down and started like french kissing my breast/nip. i didn't mind, it felt fine, but why did he do that? is that normal?

2007-01-15 09:51:01 · 7 answers · asked by Katie J 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been going out 18 months and her birthday is around the corner. What can i get?! I'm stuck for ideas! I swear i've already used every present EVER.

2007-01-15 09:50:30 · 10 answers · asked by okssw 1 in Singles & Dating

I work with this girl that loves me and I love her. The problem is that she is in a relationship with someone else that has recently turned into an engagement. The engagement was a mistake and she had no choice to say yes, she knows that. Its just messed up because although there were a lot of signs that their relationship was going down the shitter, she was never very vocal about it with him and so he wasn't very informed of what was going on. So here we are, she lives with him and has sex with me and not him and is trying to let him down slowly. I know its REALLY rough on him and sometimes i feel like just letting it go and letting him have her even though i love her and will make her happier. She knows she will be happier with me but its just letting go of two years that is the hard part. I often wonder if her being happy is worth all the pain were putting on him. It seems like it should be somethings just arn't fair. Any opinions on how this should be handled or comments

2007-01-15 09:50:29 · 2 answers · asked by flyboy1 1 in Singles & Dating

That's it. I have tried everything. The high school sweetheart? Failed. The blind dates.... failed. My gf of 8 years....lost her mind. I am now convinced that sane women do not live in Indianapolis. So here it is. Who wants to get hitched? I figure since planning and careful selection have burned me, its time to give up on whatever it is I'm doing.

So, who's in?

2007-01-15 09:50:03 · 4 answers · asked by ADMAN_LJ 3 in Singles & Dating

Or friends. Can't really afford it either. Am feeling trapped and a little depressed.

2007-01-15 09:49:37 · 9 answers · asked by SmokyJD 2 in Family

I'm in junior high and i'm going on my first date with this really hot guy and i don't know what to wear. serious answers only.
Also what kind of makeup should i wear, to school i usually just wear lipgloss and mascara

2007-01-15 09:49:19 · 9 answers · asked by lollipop_12321 2 in Singles & Dating