I work with this girl that loves me and I love her. The problem is that she is in a relationship with someone else that has recently turned into an engagement. The engagement was a mistake and she had no choice to say yes, she knows that. Its just messed up because although there were a lot of signs that their relationship was going down the shitter, she was never very vocal about it with him and so he wasn't very informed of what was going on. So here we are, she lives with him and has sex with me and not him and is trying to let him down slowly. I know its REALLY rough on him and sometimes i feel like just letting it go and letting him have her even though i love her and will make her happier. She knows she will be happier with me but its just letting go of two years that is the hard part. I often wonder if her being happy is worth all the pain were putting on him. It seems like it should be somethings just arn't fair. Any opinions on how this should be handled or comments
2007-01-15 09:50:29 · 2 answers · asked by flyboy1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Flyboy why would you want a girl that is cheating? What makes you think that she wont do the same thing to you?? I guarantee she sleeps with him to she lies to keep you around. If I were you Id kick her to the curb and let her live her dysfunctional life with her husband to be...She sounds like a huge skank and I think you can do better...there are to many women out there for you to waste your time on a trick
2007-01-15 09:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had to say yes ?? What a crock of sh*t. Are you sure she's not playing a game on you here ? Sounds to me like lots of lies are being told.
2007-01-15 17:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋