mind games?

Question

Ok, so i have been dating and talking to this person for a few weeks now, After the first week she told me that she was still talking to some other people, she told me that she likes to date a lil before commited to someone to know what she is getting into, which i understood. It is hard on me right now because i like her so much, she up until my confusion meant the world to me, we have a great time together, she will do nice things, visit me and bring me treats at work, but it is wierd, she either acts like she is totally into me and then the next minute, she disapears and talks to me differently, it goes back and forth, should i let it be, or should i just leave it alone and pretend that the whole experience and feelings that i felt for her never existed?? any advice, or ideas of why she is playing with my mind and heart?

Answer 1

She might really like you but just too afraid to show it right now. If she is bringing you stuff at work and visiting you that means she does like you. Girls just don't do that to guys they are not interested in. Give it some time.

Answer 2

Let her explore.... she is just testing all the guys right now to find the right one...she prolly talks different so you can stay off her back and not get so mushy mushy... If u can't understand it.. then maybe u should let her go. But at the same time while she is exploring u can do the same too.

Answer 3

She is just being immature and you either have to treat her as only a friend or get her out of your life. Try to find someone else to go out with and either she will appreciate you more and try to be more faithful to you or disappear and either way you will probably be better off, especially if you find someone else that you will learn to like better

Answer 4

My suggestion to you is to not do anything to try to make her jealous or whatever because if you play games with her you'll just make it worst. Try taking her out and at the end of the night just tell her how you feel.