Heya! Well thing is, i'm in 2nd year college and i've always been friends with this guy in my class. I thought nothing of it until recently. Just before christmas, we were at a class party and we spent most of the night talking in the night-club, when we went dancing, he held me and started kissing me. During the xmas hols, we went on another night out with 2 friends, and we kissed again for the entire night.
Nothing more was mentioned after. Now that we're back in college again after the holidays, we do seem to talk a bit more. I just dont know does he actually like me or was it just nothing cause i'm beginning to like him quite a lot now but I dont know should I try anything as if he didnt like me, the next two years in class might be awkward!!
2007-01-15 09:56:58 · 10 answers · asked by cork_lass_19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
By the way, the nights in the club, he only had about 3 drinks each night, waited with me for 2 hours after the club for my lift home and last friday we went into the city together and he came makeup shopping with me haha
2007-01-15 10:10:58 · update #1
he probably was drunk.
2007-01-15 10:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well as you've only kissed on nights out, it could be that he just got carried away/drunk etc. But you've been friends for a while, I'm assuming you've been on nights out together before? And nothing happened then, so it does seem a bit strange for him to make a move at this stage if he doesn't like you as more than a friend. You could invite to something casually, just for a drink or something, see how it goes. Be flirty but not over the top and see if anything happens. If he's not really giving anything away then just talk to him about it. Say that you're a bit confused after what happened, you had fun, but didn't know if that was it and you were just back to normal now or if he likes you as more than a friend. If you don't run at him declaring your love, but just say you're not sure how you feel, you like him and you want to spend more time together but you don't want to spoil your friendship it won't be awkward because if he says no that was it, you can say that's what you thought, you were just a bit confused because you'd crossed the boundary of just being friends. Anyway sorry bit of a longwinded answer, but good luck!
2007-01-15 10:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by boop a doop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it sounds like he defintely likes you and maybe has been thinking about kissing you for a while. I don't think if it was just a kiss he would do it again or the whole night or even come make up shopping with you. He probably thinks akward now and doesnt know how to make the next move, so point him in the direction ;)
2007-01-15 10:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could like you - he's given off the right signs to suggest he does. Did you never innocently ask why he was kissing you?
If anything, I would let things run its course. If you like him, make sure the feeling's mutual and wait for him to tell you what he feels.
The thing is, if you ask him outright, and he doesn't feel the same, then it could make things awkward between you. He could have just kissed you because of the moment, and both of you were letting it carry on.
But the chances are, he's interested. Just don't rush it or push it, othewise, you could lose him as a friend
2007-01-15 10:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by x_Little_Miss_Kitty_x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with malejocel and Gilly: If nothing else you can ask him in a way that won't damage the friendship. I think he will prolly be happy to go out with you.
I would appreciate being asked out. That is always cool. I am not sure of exactly how to pose the question because I have no idea about his personality.
Good luck and other best wishes from afar!
---That Cheeky Lad
2007-01-15 12:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you try talking to him about it? You said you are both talking more than before, and that is a good sign. Ask him if he's interested in you. If he hesitates too long in answering you, stop the all-night-kissing and move on before you become more attached. It is possible it was just a holiday "thing." But I hope not.
2007-01-15 10:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by Yvette N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out.
We chaps find it so flattering to be told that we are better than pond scum. He wouldn't have kissed you if there wasn't something there. If he says no then what have you lost. You could see if he wants to come over and study. Bit cliched I know but just be you.
Good luck.
2007-01-15 10:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by malejocelyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's into you. He probably wouldn't kiss you otherwise. Although alcohol can make you do weird things. But, come on, who talks in a nite-club!?
Go for it. AVoiding people is easier than you would think.
2007-01-15 10:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by Dana-D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you made yourself too easily available, he maybe disappointed. Let time tell.
2007-01-15 10:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you all right if not he's barking mad coming on to you like that and if you ask me you need to confront him!.
2007-01-15 10:24:13 · answer #10 · answered by Gilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋