2007-01-15 09:54:22 · 20 answers · asked by o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes, otherwise i wouln't be married to him
2007-01-15 09:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by gabby 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am married to someone I have realised I dont love, I feel he tricked me into marriage by pretending he was someone he wasn't. He is only happy if I am doing something he wants me to do, so yes I certainly have made the biggest mistake of my life and very much have second thoughts. What a fool I've been, aged 21 but have a beautiful baby boy so some good has come out of bad... my baby is what is keeping us together but I don't know for how long. Good luck, you're obviously in a similar position.
2007-01-15 10:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never wanted to get married but suddenly found myself pregnant and married for the first time at the ripe old age of 40. And yes, I have second thoughts all the time - he is a pain in the neck and I really shouldn't have got married. But I am and I will do my duty until I simply can't take any more.
2007-01-15 09:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I married my my husband when i was 19 still going strong 9 years and 6 children later. hes my soulmate. No second thoughts at all.
2007-01-16 23:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by jkdtw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, Yes. I love my husband. He's my best friend. But... I'm not IN LOVE with him. Their is no magic for me. I married him because I wanted to protect him even though if it meant
I would suffer until death do us part. He would probably be dead right now if I didn't--I didn't want to see him get hurt, so I had to make the sacerfice. I was the only one who could b/c he has been in love with me for years. I know it sounds horrible but I did it out of love for him!
2007-01-15 12:25:06 · answer #5 · answered by STARS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been married to my husband for 2 years and at times i do have second thoughts but then i look at him and realise how much i really am in love with him and how dull my life would be without him in it he might make me want to wring his neck sometimes but he also makes me laugh and tingle like no other man could ever do. if the doubts are just contantly stuck in your mind then that person obviously isnt the 1 for you
2007-01-19 06:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by truebrit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'm married to someone I really love. No, I have no second thoughts whatsoever - on the contrary, I often look at him and marvel at my good fortune of meeting this wonderful person.
2007-01-15 10:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i married at 19, im now 21, i have changed since my teens and i know im married to the wrong man!!! alot has gone on between us, he has been emotionally abusive towards me and has started to turn violent and turning me violent in return. i dont really love him anymore as much as i try to and yes i have second thoughts all the time!!xx
2007-01-15 20:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i loved my husband alot, but always had second thoughts, as if i was with the right person, should have listened to my second thoughts, as they were right. should never have married him.
2007-01-15 10:08:21 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes to both for me I love my wife,but I do have wandering thoughts of what if ! but to I feel is a normal feeling..unless your attracted else where.
2007-01-18 01:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I really love my spouse. No second thoughts ever.
2007-01-15 09:58:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋