A really handsome man at my church started having conversations with me about a month ago. We've been at this church for at least 6 years now and I never noticed him because he was married. He's now divorced, with a 4 yr old son. This man talks a lot when we have conversations but he's never shown me any clear signs that he's interested in anything more than conversations. Although when he sees me he seems really excited and initiates the conversation. Yet, he hasn't asked for my telephone number or for a date. I've tried to give him clues that I'm interested; for instance, he likes dancing and eating fine food. I told him I went to a restaurant that have both but I couldn't dance because I didn't have a partner. Hint, hint? I don't know what to do, any suggestions?
2007-01-15 09:57:02 · 12 answers · asked by prazdancr4501 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He seems to just want to be friends for the time being. Keep talking to him & let him have his space.
2007-01-15 10:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry! Maybe because he is recently divorced he likes to take things really really really slow... Perhaps you should just be a little more patient than usual. I know a handsome man that loves the Lord is hard to resist, but especially since he has a son he might want to develop a good friendship before he even goes out on a date with you.
The other alternative is that he is super shy and not used to asking woman out on dates since he was married. You could throw a few more hints or ask around to find out what his deal is. I wish you the best!
2007-01-15 10:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by Charlee's Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 19:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by maffia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some churches do not support divorced church members dating within the church so my advice to you is to first check with the elders of the church before going any further with this.
2007-01-15 10:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out to dinner.
It's called Going On A Date, and there is NO reason why it has to be the man who asks the woman. This is the 21st century, not the 19th!
2007-01-15 10:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask him out for a drink and get to know him outside of the confines of the church.
2007-01-15 10:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come right out and ask him if he would not mind going out dancing with you or just a coffee, somewhere cozy and let him know. when you get the chance to tell him how you feel.
2007-01-15 10:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by michaelv37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he'd like to out for coffee after church sometime...
2007-01-15 10:05:19 · answer #8 · answered by Ralph 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he likes you but he's trying not to rush into a relationship because he just got divorced so take it slow and try talking to him more and see what happens
2007-01-15 10:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by Janelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well men are good pretenders,for you to know if his really interested to you,you better ask one of his closest friends if his interested with someone or be straight forward to him but be prepared with the results....
2007-01-15 10:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋