okay if you have read any of my previous questions then you'll know my boyfriend broke up with me about 2 weeks ago...this past friday his best friend came up to me and said that he thinks im getting hotter but he got a new gf the day after he told me i was out! Why did he tell his friends this? What does it mean?
2007-01-15 09:56:30 · 15 answers · asked by Zee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im over him and accpeted the fact that he has a new gf but im just confused if he broke up with me why is he saying stuff? Or is he not over me yet?
2007-01-15 10:08:25 · update #1
He's probably not over you yet and maybe he got the gf just to make you jealous. Anyways, he's being an asshole, so work on letting go of him. When you get a new bf, he'll be pissed XD. G'luck!!
2007-01-15 09:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is saying this because he is young and immature. He thinks this empowers him but it is really an empty ploy.
You need to step back and take a break. …go read some books or study hard for a few weeks. Do something to improve yourself and build self confidence. Guys like girls who are confident, have good morals, and life long accomplishments/goals. If you have these things guys will be tripping over themselves for you.
You are still very young. Don’t learn things the hard way by playing stupid games. You'll only end up hurt. Love is a serious thing TAKE IT SERIOUSLEY AND TAKE YOUR TIME!!
2007-01-15 18:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ralph 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like a case of you don't know what you got til its gone... now that its over between you two he realizes just what a fool he was and just how hot u really are... in that case gurl... don't take him back even if he duz get rid of the nu g/f... cuz if hes to stupid to realize what he had to begin with once ur back with him he's gonna forget it again... so my advice is simple... just remember... UR Beautiful... U deserve to be treated like a queen... he dumped u.. So its time for you to FIND A NU GUY one alot hotter than this last one... make him realize just what he's lost that way he won't make the same mistake in the future (its never wrong to teach a guy a lesson) but whatever you do... make sure U r happy with your choice
2007-01-15 18:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by Bride to Be 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds kind of crazy, immature, and spiteful. Who cares what it means, run like the wind. He is trying to hurt you on purpose, and that is not love.
Like the famous Media said, " if someone leaves you, you should say Hallelujah!!!!!!! You might now see it now, but he has done you a HUGE favor by getting out and not messing up your life or wasting you time.
2007-01-15 18:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an ***... If he got a gf a day after breaking up with you it means that he's a player. If I were you I wouldn't pay attention to anything he says and forget about him. Looks like he just wants to play with you, don't let him!!!
2007-01-15 18:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by Becca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man cant have what he wants then its more of an interest to him. If he let you go I would show him what a good thing he did let go of. If he comes calling you or wants you back ( my personal opinion ) would be to just leave him alone. He'll regret it later if he doesnt already.. Move on and find yourself a real man. Who wants you for you.. Good Luck!!
2007-01-15 18:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by boricuba_ma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your ex is trying to pawn you off to his best friends. SO be carefull and your ex is an idiot. It also means that the guy only wants something from you and that's all. SO be extra carefull. ANd when you see your ex flip him the finger for been an idiot. Wanta chat just IM me anytime
2007-01-15 18:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes the taste of both pies (you girls being the pie of course) and can't decide. And maybe he just wants people to know that since he had you recently, you're off limits until further notice.
2007-01-15 18:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to prove that he is a "player" to his friends but his best friend may be trying to hit on you now so ignore both of them and find someone out of that group who will treat you better!!
2007-01-15 18:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think he's trying to boost your morale? To hell with him girl, take it as a compliment and don't think anything more of it. He was a fool to let you go- don't be the fool who goes chasing after him- you are so much better than that, and him!
2007-01-15 18:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by maddi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋