OK my husband and his mom and dad are fighting over something that even shouldn't be fighting over. I know I should stay out of it but I just worry I don't like drama. What should I do? NO RUDE anwsers Please
2007-01-15 09:25:54 · 11 answers · asked by dreamer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You answered your own question: "I know I should stay out of it". You're 100% correct. Tell your husband to take his drama outside or keep it out of the house.
2007-01-15 09:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay out of it.They won't admit this,but even though you are apart of the family,you are still an outsider.If you get involved,when it's all over they will find a way to blame you for something that happened,and use you as a way to bring themselves back together!
2007-01-15 09:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby didn't talk to his family for ten years over a comment that was said. He made up with them after a bad auto accident because he decided he didn't want to die without talking to them again. Just let them work it out for now and try to remain neutral.
2007-01-15 09:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they come running to you about it, tell them you're staying out of it, you refuse to get invovled in all their drama. Shrug and tell them may the best man or woman win.
2007-01-15 09:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it, nothing good will come from you trying to solve his problems. Unless he asks you something dont even say anything about it.
2007-01-15 09:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by Steveo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me dear old dad(god rest his soul)said to me after i ask him about a disagreement between myself and mother,son your mams right weather she right or wrong. being young at the time(16) i spend many years pondering his answer,as time past and i had a family of my own his wisdom re surfaced from all them years past,and at last i understood , always back your partner no matter what,(he/she)could be wrong but you need to re lie on each other and build trust.
PS that doesn't mean you cant use your charms to smooth the path!!!
2007-01-15 10:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to state your opinion, clearly, once and for-all, just to let them all know you feel it is petty. Then stay out of it. It's their drama, don't make it yours. And don't let them drag you into it.
2007-01-15 09:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it,but be there for him if or went he wants to talk.
2007-01-16 14:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there and done that soo many times. and after 5yrs of marrige I have learned that its better if I just stay out of it until he ask for your opion
2007-01-15 10:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay OUT of it. Really.
2007-01-15 09:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by Captain Jack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋