Family & Relationships - 13 January 2007

...to show him I am not going to put up with that. We have been talking about how we should get together and we have known each other for a long time, and just finally finding out alot about each other. He is dating my ex friend and he keeps telling me that she is treating him like crap. SHe is trying to change him, trying to get him to stop drinking and dippin. He told me they did it a few months ago for the first time (together) and she didnt like it. He told me that she didnt want to get on top after he was on top for a while, she said she didnt know what to do. He actually told her "Well you have seen Seabiscuit, RIDE!" Anyway, even both their personalities are different, SHe is up tight and prepy and he is laid back and country, Im not a prep (ewww) I was born a country girl. But i know I have more to offer him then she does. What should I do?

2007-01-13 02:09:03 · 8 answers · asked by one tuff babe 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 02:07:55 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Im gonna try and sum up my situation. This girl has liked me for almost as long as i can remember, i was a complete jackass to her for a time (thats not what im asking about though). About 7 months ago i realized that i actually liked her, the problem was i was leaving to be a foriegn exchange student in 1 month for a year. I told her i liked her, and we agreed that wed see what to do once i get back. And for now see other people. She has been dating this jackass, and she keeps saying if i hadnt left her, it would be me and not him, but she says it all the time, and im really startin to feel guilty, its almost like she expects me to regret coming here (Chile). And that is something i cant do, cause this has been the experience of my life, but should i feel guilty about coming here and leaving her, because i do really like her.

2007-01-13 02:07:20 · 13 answers · asked by The quiet one 2 in Singles & Dating

When the school year started this girl I didnt really like much, kept coming over to me and telling me storys, also during classes she would say stuff like "I went to that hotel", "you can build computer, COOL!", But saying I didnt like her I shrugged outta the conversation. Now she nevers talks to me and im wondering, how to attract who over to start talking to me again, I have a crush.

Now she dosent even respond to my bebo/myspace posts, what can i do?

2007-01-13 02:06:19 · 3 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Singles & Dating

if they made it law and a criminal ofence that if you cheat on your g/f , b/f husband or wife do you think that would stop people cheating on there partners...?????

2007-01-13 02:05:05 · 12 answers · asked by hurts so good 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few months. I try to read what she's feeling, and what she's thinking. But women are hard to figure out. When I kissed her goodnight one night, I felt like she wanted a little bit more, but I don't want to be the one to make a move, and disrespect her or freak her out. So the next time, she made the next move. Which I probably never would have. Do most women do that? If you don't make a move, they will?

2007-01-13 02:02:23 · 12 answers · asked by Hammy 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend (a guy)just got outta boot camp. so he'll be returning a few weeks --- and last night i got sold you because he met a lil hottie.. WHAT?? he sold me out for someone he will never see again?? what's up w/ that??

2007-01-13 02:01:56 · 16 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

one was 11 when he was missing 4 years ago and the other boy was missing a week.anyone have information on this,Thank God they was found safe.

2007-01-13 02:00:19 · 6 answers · asked by Dew 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

im boy crazed and clueless

2007-01-13 01:59:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or do you just stick with what suits you ?

2007-01-13 01:59:33 · 7 answers · asked by North London Lady! 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 01:58:27 · 5 answers · asked by michela m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

u r my life, everything i want in my life...i mean she say it over and over i say ok plz stop...she keeps saying it though

2007-01-13 01:58:20 · 4 answers · asked by urstory 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 01:57:52 · 27 answers · asked by sharmanator1969 1 in Singles & Dating

at a bar last night, got too buzzed, + started bein a dick to this girl. to my surprise, she got fed up, and kneed me. she gave me all the warnings, but you only see what you want to see sometimes . . .

it was the first time it ever happened to me, and it was the worst. instinctively i ended up on the floor, and of course it took me a while to get back up. the whole time, i had to listen to her freinds tell her how good a shot it was and how much i deserved it. so it sucked.

but it was almost like a religious experience too. here was this girl, just 5'2"ish, and i'm destroyed. i kind of felt like i did deserve it for underestimating her powers, and felt like wow, i;d be wise to never make such an underestimation again. and getting kicked in the nuts isn't like getting kicked in the knee - i felt like she exercized the power of a goddess.

it seems insane, but i feel like i had a bad acid trip opened my eyes, and thus ended well. i'd immagine this is not the norm?

2007-01-13 01:56:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am dating a married man with 3 children. We also work together. We both want to be together and the sex is "out of this world". He says I need to decide if I can deal with the "drama" that comes with him leaving his wife and if I decide I am willing to work through that, all I need to do is tell him to leave his wife and be with me and he will in a heartbeat. I know this is wrong and I have never been with a married man before but I have feelings for him that have overrided my morals and lead me to want to be with him. What do I do?

2007-01-13 01:55:36 · 40 answers · asked by DM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 20 years old, and my girlfriend is 18. I highly doubt we will be getting married any time soon because she still has like 6 years of college left. So whats the point? I think I have just set myself up for heartbreak.

2007-01-13 01:54:53 · 11 answers · asked by Hammy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 01:52:09 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a single working mother with 2 children. My son (the 1st grader) is at times very happy, but spent christmas with his dad (the only days I can get him to spend time with my son) and he came back very sad and wanting to live with his dad. Any ideas? I dont want to get him upset with his dad or show I am, but he desperately needs cheering.

2007-01-13 01:52:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-13 01:51:13 · 6 answers · asked by good_and_plenty 1 in Weddings

2007-01-13 01:51:06 · 21 answers · asked by Chuck 2 in Singles & Dating

She broke up with me almost 1 year ago as she didn't know what she wanted/ wasn't sure of all her feelings and wanted to see other guys. She knew she broke my heart and that I loved her.

We recently got back in touch and we told each other we both still like each other and both said it would be nice to meet each other again. Last time I saw her was 5 months ago (some months after breaking up) and she seemed like she regretted breaking up back them (she kissed me when I left and told me it was nice to see me).

Has anyone ever got back with an ex? Did you talk about the past, or just give it a go again & forget the past? Just want to make sure we don't get into the same situation again....

2007-01-13 01:50:07 · 6 answers · asked by James 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 01:49:45 · 23 answers · asked by Lorna 2 in Family

If I had to find my uncle in the US where would I go?
He's a marine biologist, probably in his 60's I think I have his second name. I defitnetly have his first name and his wives name.
Where do marine biologists work. At Uni's what? thanks guys

2007-01-13 01:47:45 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

I have a feeling you all do. (even on the first date)

2007-01-13 01:45:16 · 14 answers · asked by Dick Richards 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Insecurity mostly, I admit.
Rough relationship with wonderful times in between and a lot of love. He cheated once at the beginning and during a break up I had a relationship with someone else... It's all forgiven now, but Insecurity and memories come out in moments like this one:
Were separated for about 10 days right before the Holidays and got back together and everything was working out well. Then, I screwed up, and looked as his myspace account and found e-mail sthat he had sent this 2 girls with his cellphone, asking them on dates that night and telling them that he had just gotten out of a relationship and just looking to hook up. Beautiful girls btw. They seemed to fall for it because they called. YES, I looked at his phone bill, I KNOW.
So I confronted him about it and he said they didn't meet and that it was just to help his confidence and make friends... (through passion.com, of course)...

Other than pointing out my obvious insecurity/trust issues, what do you think?

2007-01-13 01:44:46 · 27 answers · asked by myliz 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-13 01:44:31 · 10 answers · asked by The one who knows 3 in Singles & Dating

you lot can write your add n i will add you !!!
hope i find some in the uk !!!
i'm sweet n nice. .. .new in life
whatever that is true is right
thank you xx !!!!!!!!! for bein my friends !!!

2007-01-13 01:44:21 · 6 answers · asked by THUG LIFE 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 01:43:41 · 15 answers · asked by houligan73 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-13 01:42:09 · 26 answers · asked by Tom Walker 1 in Family

Who is the most important person in your life?

The perason who has affected you the most...and as a result, you feel you cannot live without him/her?

2007-01-13 01:40:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships