...to show him I am not going to put up with that. We have been talking about how we should get together and we have known each other for a long time, and just finally finding out alot about each other. He is dating my ex friend and he keeps telling me that she is treating him like crap. SHe is trying to change him, trying to get him to stop drinking and dippin. He told me they did it a few months ago for the first time (together) and she didnt like it. He told me that she didnt want to get on top after he was on top for a while, she said she didnt know what to do. He actually told her "Well you have seen Seabiscuit, RIDE!" Anyway, even both their personalities are different, SHe is up tight and prepy and he is laid back and country, Im not a prep (ewww) I was born a country girl. But i know I have more to offer him then she does. What should I do?
2007-01-13 02:09:03 · 8 answers · asked by one tuff babe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you have real feeling for him you need to go to him and be upfront and let him know how you feel.He may feel the same way you never know.Take a Chance.Good Luck
2007-01-13 02:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by Dew 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on.Why would you want to be the "other women".You deserve better and you should have more respect for yourself.Don't ever settle for 2nd best .
2007-01-13 02:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
become his first choice if you aren't already.
be careful though, sounds like he is a player, watch out for the 3rd and 4th jockeys too
2007-01-13 02:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ew girl,dont settle for that!
find a new man... then tell him about it,, see how he likes it.
2007-01-13 02:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by tinkerbellavic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who will make you his first choice.
2007-01-13 02:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like tinkerbell's answer - - - you deserve better
2007-01-13 02:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by tirebiter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can either be second choice or move on ....
2007-01-13 02:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he don't like her he'll dump her and if she don't like him she'll dump him. cuz if they don't, there aint anything u can do bout it.
move on please they better guys out there!
2007-01-13 02:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by Lil' miz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋