Family & Relationships - 13 January 2007

My man didn't get me a birthday present. Together 7 months at the time, and my birthday roles around and no birthday present. Still 2 months later and nothing.

When should I have dumped him. And why

2007-01-13 01:39:35 · 7 answers · asked by inlovewithwoody 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 01:39:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

..really a relationship?...If whenever he wants to have sex should we ALWAYS do it..even when i don't want to... i personally don't want to..the relationship is still young, so what should i do?

2007-01-13 01:38:00 · 22 answers · asked by prettypebbles_7 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm so sad this really nice guy didn't say goodbye to me before I returned home to america. He told me he could never be angry at me and I gave him alot of drama before but he always came back and talked to me he is in the military in asia he must do two years.. but he usually tried to come online before and talk to me but this time he didn't I gave him some text messages but I don't know if he got them. I told him I was leaving but I am leaving sooner. I don't know if he is avoiding me or he really doesn't know.. that I am leaving sooner but I feel he knows..I don't know why he is avoiding me now so hurt..we are friends and we were never a couple but he really is a nice guy so I don't know what his problem is..if he is busy or he is avoiding me its hard to tell...

2007-01-13 01:37:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i tell a family member that they have a problem with their personal hygiene without offending them? I am due to go to a family gathering soon and a close member of my family will be there. but they are unable to get upstairs to shower and they have a very bad odour that follows them around. i have bought the subject up on several occasions but this person has not taken the hint. i feel guilty about saying anything but i feel that if i dont say anything someone else will and they wont be very diplomatic. please help

2007-01-13 01:37:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-13 01:37:08 · 7 answers · asked by khashayar24 1 in Singles & Dating

If a woman is 18 and a guy is 60 and they love each other, why does everyone wanna bash them? so what if she loves him and his money and so what if he wants to have a young babe? why does everyone wanna make a big friken deal about it.

2007-01-13 01:35:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 01:35:08 · 15 answers · asked by Pooh 2 in Singles & Dating

(to cut a massive story short) i nipped home from work the this lunch time, only to find my 18yr old Daughter naked, all but her panties, with two other lads her own age... ish. one was fully dressed and the other was "topless" on the sofa with her. they were OBVIOUSY shoked when i walked in, and they jumped up and covered themselves. i didnt say anything at the time, i just picked up some bits and pieces and went back to work, but im going to have to speak to her when i get home.

i dont know who was more embarressed, her or me, what should i say and how should i approach it when i get home?, any idea's at all?

2007-01-13 01:33:24 · 9 answers · asked by meandthee 2 in Singles & Dating

would you be able to leave the rest of your family (parents getting older and not keen to travel, little nieces growing up, potentially more nieces/nephews on the way)??? Eg to New Zealand

2007-01-13 01:32:30 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 13 and in 7th grade. 5 feet 2 inches tall, I just grew out of traing bras. How much should I weigh

2007-01-13 01:31:31 · 6 answers · asked by goody2shoes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do i deal with her? She seeks attention from me all the time. I give her attention just as much as i give all the rest of my lil cousins but i give her more because she comes to visit only twice in a yr and even then, she constantly gives me verbal abuse for no reason what so ever. She keeps commenting on me and my make up and that i keep showoffing which is soooo not true. She is jealous of her big cousin who she wants to be like but cant becuase she is only 11 and i am 23. What can i do? she has alot of jealousy and feels she can make her big cousin cry. I haven't done anything to her and she ruined my whole xmas holidays. I have been ill for the past 11 yrs and because of my problems, i have never even wanted to think of clothes makeup, jewellery and fashion. I dint even care what i looked like never mind fashion. I have been seriously ill all throughout my teens and after going into hospital, i have got better and still on medication and visiting hospital every few wks.

2007-01-13 01:30:52 · 11 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex-boyfriend now friend is trying to force me to do a threesome. I think that when you participate in a threesome it should be with people who are comfortable with it. Honestly I have no problem with doing so, BUT I don’t want to do that with him. I still have feelings for him and I don't want to share him with another girl. He also knows that this is uncomfortable for me and still begs me to do it. Maybe I am blowing this all out of proportion, but if you truly care for someone and you knew that certain sexual acts made them uncomfortable would you still ask/ try to force them to do it?

2007-01-13 01:30:45 · 12 answers · asked by The one who knows 3 in Singles & Dating

Hello!
What are some good or unique ideas for a second date? Preferably something not too expensive (neither of us has a lot of cash at the moment), but I'd still like to hear your ideas. (We've already done the 'dinner & a movie' thing.) Thank you!

2007-01-13 01:29:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 01:25:25 · 24 answers · asked by fayewinkz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean.. someone offers 50,000 USD to get married him/her (just to let him/her get your citizienship "passport") a marriage only in paper.. 1 year later (you can divorce) and he/she knows you can do it. No lawyers and judge involved...would you accept this offer?

2007-01-13 01:24:31 · 21 answers · asked by Mateus 1 in Weddings

As a sophomore in highschool, still working on defining myself, I find it hard to express how I feel and just be who I am. I am self-conscious, shy, and hard on myself. Truly I am enthusiastic, caring, and funny, but I come off as an ackward, stupid little girl. This tendency has only caused trouble for me. My crush has only seen this fake side of me and so is not interested at all. I do not have many friends and find it difficult to open up.
Another factor is my voice. I cannot talk very loud compared to other people. My voice cracks and it sounds much higher and sweeter than I mean it to be. How does one improve one`s speaking voice?
Any help on these problems would be greatly appreciated.

2007-01-13 01:21:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have some old videos of my wife and I having Sex and I periodicly view them when she is not in the mood. Is that a Sin that I am getting my rocks off by viewing what we did in the past sexually?

Ps. I am tring to stop looking at porn but I figure watching me make love to my wife is not porn..is it?

2007-01-13 01:19:50 · 21 answers · asked by Bedda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need to know how manny time a person gotten divored... i know a man that been married 10 and divorced 10 ,Is there more than that????

2007-01-13 01:19:49 · 4 answers · asked by roseann c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to begin with my bf and i live in different countries... we've been together for almost a yr and a half and i honestly love him more than anything.

lately...i'm so frustrated and upset with him about some of the things he does and doesn't do. i don't want to say anything to him because i don't want to stress him about what is bothering me or piss him off because it might be something we have already talked about. which doesn't do any good because now i just argue with him about every little thing that happens.. and then end up bringing up old stuff that doesn't really matter but does..

the other thing is... we've been talking about him coming to live with me. sometimes i don't think he's trying as much as he could. like i know he is to a point, it's just at the same time he's not. *sighs* i really don't know... :- /

any suggestions or advice ?

2007-01-13 01:19:28 · 3 answers · asked by pnlk123 1 in Singles & Dating

Our relationship was 4 yrs old when i found out my bf was into cyber sex.I had a suspicion and i told him i would ignore whatever had happened for the sake of our love & that it must stop.There were absolutely no questions asked.6 months later i found out he was still into it.This time i confronted him,and told him it was over because he risked all that we had,for some unreal fantasy. Real or not,it was cheating. He broke my trust,he admits to it,but he says "it didnt mean anything". We were so much in love,and both of us think we had everything.Why would he then risk our relationship when we were so happy together? He says he knows i cant forgive him and he's sorry for the pain he has caused me,but he really loves me.I dont know whether this was another version of cheap porn for him,but i feel cheated.I love him a lot,he's always on my mind,but i dont know if i'll be able to regain my trust in him.Should i give him another chance? Should i take him back?

2007-01-13 01:19:10 · 5 answers · asked by tina 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm neither of these two people but I don't know how to deal with this. A few days ago this 11 year old girl I know confided in me that she was in love with a friend of mine who's 15. She's been in love with him for the past 2 years. She asked me whether she should just forget him or keep on hoping. Obviously I told her that she should forget him and explained the whole age difference thing and being inappropriate and all that. The hard thing for her is that she is in the same school bus as him where they always have contact with each other. I know what i told her was the right thing (right?) but then why does it feel so wrong?

2007-01-13 01:18:52 · 14 answers · asked by World of Suffering 3 in Friends

2007-01-13 01:16:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you wish for...

2007-01-13 01:15:56 · 10 answers · asked by hurts so good 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

there's this guy at school, that knows me but not that well. And i kinda like him but he is a popular and has many better choices than me. But everytime i walk passed him he looks at me like he likes me or something. which is just weird.

2007-01-13 01:15:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't find my first love, i have done everything been every where, we live in different states, i know the address, but no phone number, the number seems to be unlisted or they don't have a home phone. The house phone won't be in his name i can assure that. Im lost, i feel like giving up, but i know that i need to find him if anything to get closure i have been looking for 2 years, and just found his address, what do i do. some one lead me to the right direction!!!

2007-01-13 01:14:58 · 3 answers · asked by hatethislove1121 1 in Singles & Dating

Question for the Women of the world

2007-01-13 01:14:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 13 years old and around 2 months ago my boyfriend dumped me. I was heartbroken and didn't get over it for a while. Then he went out with one of my mates but she has recently dumped him. He's now single and I still really like him. problem is, he probably doesn't like me (coz he dumped me). I know youre not meant to go back to the boy who broke your heart but everyone deserves a second chance dont they? I really really like him but i dont know what to do! Please help! Thanks x

2007-01-13 01:12:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well yall al know what its like to regret things you did or said in the past. if you had an opertunity to take them back, would you? i sure would.

2007-01-13 01:11:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

sometime ago, her sister got married, and in the wedding, we joke a lot about the two of us doing the same, but beside the jokes, for sometime already it seems to have something going on between us
my mother says sometimes that she(my cousin) seems to likes me and all...but it think she says it thinking that i won't go out with her...
her mother has said somethings like that too

I like her, i’m not just fooling around, i really would like to date her
should i ask her out? You guys think the family will complain about it??

2007-01-13 01:10:45 · 8 answers · asked by gattsoul 2 in Singles & Dating