to begin with my bf and i live in different countries... we've been together for almost a yr and a half and i honestly love him more than anything.
lately...i'm so frustrated and upset with him about some of the things he does and doesn't do. i don't want to say anything to him because i don't want to stress him about what is bothering me or piss him off because it might be something we have already talked about. which doesn't do any good because now i just argue with him about every little thing that happens.. and then end up bringing up old stuff that doesn't really matter but does..
the other thing is... we've been talking about him coming to live with me. sometimes i don't think he's trying as much as he could. like i know he is to a point, it's just at the same time he's not. *sighs* i really don't know... :- /
any suggestions or advice ?
2007-01-13 01:19:28 · 3 answers · asked by pnlk123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long distance relationships don't work. You are not in love with him. Honestly, I don't know anybody that can love anyone if they are not physically together. It's not a relationship. He probably realizes that too and he probably has local girlfriends. Every day he's not having sex with you, he's trying to get it from someone else. Think about that before you get yourself discombobulated, wondering why he's not making an effort to be with you.
2007-01-13 01:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must talk to him if you cant communicate then the relationship is in trouble anyway ---- it may stress him but it must be done --- find out what is happening
2007-01-13 09:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and run
2007-01-13 09:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by Yard Nome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋