there's this guy at school, that knows me but not that well. And i kinda like him but he is a popular and has many better choices than me. But everytime i walk passed him he looks at me like he likes me or something. which is just weird.
2007-01-13 01:15:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, either he talks or he doesn't. Are you sure he's not autistic, cos autistic boys don't talk sometimes, but they can be really good at math. If he's autistic, let us know!
2007-01-13 01:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by Miz Understood 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
start by asking him the time. or does he know where a teacher is for example. or just say very brightly Good morning and how are your today? if he does not answer just carry on walking and don't stop. after all, he is the rude for not answering. i know how you feel. its hard, you starting to notice boys and you don't want to look stupid etc well saying hello is not being stupid it being friendly. if he says hello start from there. start talking about schools for example tell him what lessons you are studying and ask him what does study etc. the sort of talk, you to talk to, when you are making friends with another girl. its as easy as that. i bet you make friends easy. you have lots of friends because you are so friendly so do the same with him. As for him being so popular well don't be put off by that. when i was at school i was overweight and i did not wear fashionable clothes. i was not the most popular girl at school. i was very shy. but then i started to develop my personality and have a great sense of humour. i had some friends in my music class because i love music lessons so much and felt comfortable amoug people who were studying music and so my personality came out more and i was not so shy. there was a very good looking boy in my music class and he ask me to walk home with him because he liked my personality and sense of humour and all the girls in the school was dead jeaulous because he was the most popular boy in the school and all the girls fancied him but he was only interested in me. good luck
2007-01-13 09:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by b1uecee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this sounds obvious but... say 'Hello!'. All you're doing is being friendly and he won't think you're desperate or anything, but it does give him the opportunity to stop and chat. A long conversation might not happen immediately but I'm sure he'll reply with a 'Hello' back and then over time you can start to talk.
If you're scared to do this, do remember that shyness can be interpreted as stand-offishness, and you wouldn't want him to think you're haughty, would you? Just a simple 'Hello'!
2007-01-13 09:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heres the thing guys are retarded like me. We have no idea how to tell a girl we like them b/c we can't flirt like a girl so we stare. And then when the time comes when we are "friends" we avoid the girl because we are afraid of rejection so make your move and think better of your self. He DOESN'T have better choices. Improve your thoughts about yourself
2007-01-13 09:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by Steven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've seen this happen to a mate of mine. Do any of your mates know him better than you do? If so, get a mate who knows him to talk to him and you can come in join the conversation, if he seems to give you strange looks he's probably embarassed 'cos he likes you! hope that makes sense lol good luck x
2007-01-13 09:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say hi next time you pass or brush past him. Ask to borrow something from him.
2007-01-13 09:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by 90210 aka Hummer Lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confidence is what they look at. never say never. dont say i probably arnt his type or in his league. NEVER! he may like you more than you think. they like confidence in a girl. guys probably look at you and think wow, she is way above my league but hey ho, u may not be the girl they think so they could very well have a chance with you like vice versa.
2007-01-13 09:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't put yourself down you are just as worthy as everyone else.
like the others say,just say HI and see how he responds but make it a confident HI,speak up and smile too.good luck.
2007-01-13 09:20:45 · answer #8 · answered by matured 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should wait 4 him to come and talk to u because there is no girls that run after boys, it is always the opposite.
2007-01-13 09:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by nuha k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u have classes 2gether discuss that, have a friend tell him u like him
2007-01-13 09:22:54 · answer #10 · answered by Hi my name is... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋