Our relationship was 4 yrs old when i found out my bf was into cyber sex.I had a suspicion and i told him i would ignore whatever had happened for the sake of our love & that it must stop.There were absolutely no questions asked.6 months later i found out he was still into it.This time i confronted him,and told him it was over because he risked all that we had,for some unreal fantasy. Real or not,it was cheating. He broke my trust,he admits to it,but he says "it didnt mean anything". We were so much in love,and both of us think we had everything.Why would he then risk our relationship when we were so happy together? He says he knows i cant forgive him and he's sorry for the pain he has caused me,but he really loves me.I dont know whether this was another version of cheap porn for him,but i feel cheated.I love him a lot,he's always on my mind,but i dont know if i'll be able to regain my trust in him.Should i give him another chance? Should i take him back?
2007-01-13 01:19:10 · 5 answers · asked by tina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He should seek therapy for his problem first. Until he addresses the problem, it will always be there.
2007-01-13 01:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe cyber sex is a way of cheating. If he is talking sexually to other women then it is wrong. If it wasn't then why didn't he tell you about it? Someone who can't stop doing that has some sort of sickness. At least that's my opinion. Drop him if he can't stop because that means he never will.
2007-01-13 09:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by littleredd1003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should......if it was so wonderful then how could you let it go for something that is just fantasy.....watch it with him.....don't let a silly thing like that get between you....you set an expectation that wasn't reasonable for him.....and you are making too big a deal over this...good luck
2007-01-13 09:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him why he needs cyber sex instead of real sex with you cause cyber sex is lame and stupid. Cut off his internet access and see how remorseful he is after that.
2007-01-13 09:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and move on. He's going to do it again, just like he did the last time. Don't you see a pattern in his behavior? He's going to do it again, and you're going to catch him again, and he's going to say he's sorry again, and he's going to say he'll never do it again. Again, and again, and again, and again. Wake up.
2007-01-13 09:38:37 · answer #5 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋