how do i deal with her? She seeks attention from me all the time. I give her attention just as much as i give all the rest of my lil cousins but i give her more because she comes to visit only twice in a yr and even then, she constantly gives me verbal abuse for no reason what so ever. She keeps commenting on me and my make up and that i keep showoffing which is soooo not true. She is jealous of her big cousin who she wants to be like but cant becuase she is only 11 and i am 23. What can i do? she has alot of jealousy and feels she can make her big cousin cry. I haven't done anything to her and she ruined my whole xmas holidays. I have been ill for the past 11 yrs and because of my problems, i have never even wanted to think of clothes makeup, jewellery and fashion. I dint even care what i looked like never mind fashion. I have been seriously ill all throughout my teens and after going into hospital, i have got better and still on medication and visiting hospital every few wks.
2007-01-13 01:30:52 · 11 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what is her problem and how can i deal with such a naughty girl? i tried ignoring her but teh constant verbal abuse is getting too much for me.
2007-01-13 01:31:38 · update #1
Slap her, that should sort her out.
2007-01-13 01:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Puma 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it form of feels like your cousin merely needs to spend time with you. Is she continually attempting to get you to play along with her? she would merely be considered one of those completely overvalued little ones simply by fact they have not something to do all day, yet their is a parenting issue modern-day although. many mum and dad experience that by the time their baby is 8 or 9, they'd initiate coaching them the thank you to act and such. those self same mum and dad oftentimes later have intense problems with their baby while they attain little ones (approximately 13 to 18). A 7 year previous baby isn't a toddler. in case you have a huge or medium length dogs, then motivate her to play with it. If not, then attempt to speak on your mom approximately your cousin while her and her mom are not modern-day. tell your mom that for the sake of your privateness, you will desire to be allowed to fasten up your room. perhaps speaking on your cousin for a minute in a intense tone on your cousin will help her understand that it rather agitates you while she continually hangs around you, invades your privateness, and spreads rumors. sturdy success
2016-10-19 22:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by swindler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
♥well i dont no what to tell u bot i do no 1 thing i have a cousin just like that but my cousin comes to my house every day i try to ignore her but she is all ways there in my face so all i do is show her i am the big cousin and she is the little cousin. dont bring your self down because of her stay strong and hope my advice is good for you♥
2007-01-13 01:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by amanda c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her you want nothing to do with her if she hasno respect for you, tell her mom she should tell her off for what she is doing to you.
i have 4 kids and my son of 11 has got adhd which is very severe. he tells us most days how he wants us to die , its gets me down but i run the little brat into his room and make him stay there till i'm ready for him to come down i know it must be hard but try and ignore her, leave the room when she is there she will soon get sick of it and realise you aint going to stand her crap no more hope this help good luck and get well soon hun x
2007-01-13 01:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should just give it all back to her! It's pointless to be nice to such kids. Just tell her off once and am sure she won't bother you again. Sometimes children tend to take advantage of adult's niceness.
2007-01-13 01:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
sorry about your illness .... you need to ignore feeling what she says ... you shouldn't care about what she says or does, take it as it's nothing or as it's not directed to you.... i do it most of my time... some times it works and some other times it just gets me.. but you know as long as you know that that is how she is not who you are you will be able to let it go
Good Luck and i hope you get better
2007-01-13 01:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by Princess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on holiday when you know she is coming.
2007-01-13 03:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus ignore her - Try telling her parents
2007-01-16 03:24:08 · answer #8 · answered by Aleena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to fulfill her needs.dont worry about her comments
2007-01-13 01:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by preyanka r 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell it to her straight up how you feel
2007-01-13 12:51:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋