Family & Relationships - 13 January 2007

why is it that once your in debt its so hard to get out of it i mean my wife and i arent even living comfortable anymore and yet she complains about not having money but yet almost every day she goes out and buys useless things that we really dont need we just bought a house and all she wants to do is decorate when we have bills out the gazoo she would rather buy candles and holiday decorations what should i do

2007-01-13 03:37:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Look People. I need more answers in more detail. I wanna move back with my mom but she doesn't have an attorney, and she can't afford to get one. She's in a rut! my dad has full custody but she still has visitation and parental rights. What is possible?!
Ok and please only people who know what there talking about, answer this question:
I know this couple who are happily married, have two kids and are in their late 20's. They are very nice and loving and I have known them for almost a year know. They have helped me through some things and treat me like I was their own child. You see... I babysit their two little ones for them. and the kids actually think of me as their big brother. Well..... I would really wannna live with them. That's what I feel should happen because I feel really strong that I would be happy over there. How if any legal way possible can I go to live with those people?!! I would very much appreciate it guys! I really like these people and it is a dream for me.

2007-01-13 03:37:35 · 2 answers · asked by muycaliente_93 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi,
I met my girlfriend about 4 months ago, she really cool and i like her alot.
Recently though we havent been sleeping together, think its been 3 weeks. I slept in her bed with her last weekend, and she seemed to push me away whenever i got close. When i took her out she'd make an excuse not to kiss me.
Last week we went out for a meal, i bought her a rose and she kissed me after that, similar to when we first started going out.
She's told me she loves me, but is she just saying it because she hasnt got anyone else and its easier to just stay with me.
Last night we went out and we kissed a few times, seemed to be like it used to
She has been ill over christmas, when i took her out shopping she got into bad moods, do you reckon this has put her off me?
She always seems to be snapping at me and acts really harsh for no reason.
I need to ask her about it, but im not sure what im going to say to her which will not make me sound insecure.
Unless it is just me feeling a bit insecure?
Help!

2007-01-13 03:37:34 · 8 answers · asked by Matt L 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 years old, and I live alone with my dad. He is a major a**hole, seriously. He is abusive, and he's called me names, and told me to "get out". I can run away legally, but I don't have any friends or family to stay with, and there aren't any shelters here. What can I do besides getting the law involved?

2007-01-13 03:37:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Am wondering if thats possible or am i just confused.

2007-01-13 03:37:23 · 13 answers · asked by JAM - Emotions 2 in Singles & Dating

I came a large family, and I have no friends besides my brothers and sisters, but I want someone else to talk to. I feel so alone. My name is Kurt Stevenson and i'm 17 years old, and I want someone to talk to. Please no one report this question. I'm going to seriously if i don't get a friend. I'm just so depressed. I'm living on the streets with my brothers and sisters and my step brothers and step sisters. We found this place with about 20 computers, it looks like an old school or something and we're staying here for quite a while until we have to move again. So please can anyone help me. If you want to be my friend then you can email me, and if you want to be my true friend no matter what happens and if you trust me then you can give your email address or i can give you my email address and i can email you or you could email me. Thanks so much for all those who say yes.

2007-01-13 03:37:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

SHE NEVER TALKS TO ME IN SKOOL SHE TALKS TO THIS OTHER GIRL WHAT DO I DO.

2007-01-13 03:36:31 · 6 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Friends

I told this girl that I am crazy about that I think she is amazing & I was surprised she was still single, then she told me she is "technically" still living with her boyfriend of 7 years. FYI: they have been off & on the past couple of years. Does this sound like an opening for me?

2007-01-13 03:36:26 · 4 answers · asked by sparetom 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 03:36:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well there is this guy who I think may like me and i like him too! almost everyday before he gets on the bus after school he tells me he likes me and then turns around and leaves before I can say anything! Why does he do that? And he also tries to hug me, and he puts his arm around me...but I can't tell if everything that he does is meant to be a joke or not! HELP!

2007-01-13 03:35:43 · 7 answers · asked by Quin G 1 in Singles & Dating

from 4 years i met a nice guy then w became best best best friends but then he loved me and asked me to be his girlfriend i was going to say yes but then w had a fight 2 years later w he told me called me because i was ill then he was calling me every day and he was telling me i miss u he was making people 2 call me to let me go out with them and he brought me flowers one day w was out then he came n i told him that i love him he didn't give me any reaction but the he called me later every day and on my bday he brought me a present and if i was standing with any boy he becomes mad and if i went anywhere without telling him he shout's at me and he was telling to all people that he likes me or love me but the i asked once he told me if i became his gf he will lose me and then i asked him again he told me that im just afriend so can any body tell me that all he had done his love or what plzzzzzzzzzzz answer.

2007-01-13 03:34:43 · 11 answers · asked by shereen h 1 in Singles & Dating

i met him when i was 9mths pregnant,he's was and still is always there for me.but there this one thing that i cant stand,HE HAS ALOT OF A GIRLS CALLING HIS PHONE.AND SENDING TEX MESSAGES TO GET WITH HIM.should i worry or not?

2007-01-13 03:34:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been told that people tend to thwart their emotions (the negative ones) out on the people that they care the most about - basically, because they CAN.

My girlfriend is still with me so that's an obvious sign she wants to be - she is the type who would end it if she felt like ending it, after all. Anyhow, I get the full grunt of her negative emotions and she's always horrible to me and just mean and nasty.

1) So, my original question: Would my girlfriend be horrible and push me away because she cares about me?
2) What can I do about that?

2007-01-13 03:34:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 03:34:27 · 4 answers · asked by She 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I split up with y first love / ex 3 years ago. I have a new partner but I often think about my ex. I often wonder if he thinks about me, we were together for 4 years and I was his first love (he told me I am the first girl he ever loved a couple of years ago, amd we lived together for couple of years too). I know we wont be getting back together, he has moved on, I just wonder if he does think about me at times. I guess I have this idea that he does, and that it is all of the nice stuff. I m just wondering I guess, it would be cool to hae a male perspective on this. Thank you

2007-01-13 03:34:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-13 03:33:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 03:33:05 · 21 answers · asked by abid_hasan1 1 in Singles & Dating

i have an ex who is just a friend. for some reason he feels that he has to make light or joke about something i said about my friends or cousins. what is his problem? i have told him that i don't like that. he hasn't done it for awhile but he wanted to do it again and i stopped him.

2007-01-13 03:31:58 · 3 answers · asked by intelligent80000 5 in Singles & Dating

im purchasing a promise ring. and i want info on it i know what it is but when i purchase it what to look for. and excataly how do you present it???

2007-01-13 03:31:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please read, I need some good advice>>?
ok I'm 15....THis girl is really pretty...and I wanna get to know her better...but...I've never even talked to her before.....like only for 5 minutes....and thats it...but..I think she's "talking" to someone..........but all her friends say I have a chance........that they heard her talkin good about me to her bestfriend....now....I wanna ask her best friend, if I have a shot, cuz she would know, and I just dont wanna come outa the blue, and ask the girl...and..i wanna get her email adreessss also, ...like I said..ive never talked to her..so I need some good advice...and shes popular..and so am I, and not tryin to be cocky, but I'm good lookin...i just need soem good advice......oh yeah ..im 15..shes 13.....and Im focusing on my studies as well..so ..yeah..

but like yesterday..she wouldnt' even look at me..idk why?.( thats when she found out I liked her)... ...oh yeah...her friend " aproves" of me.so would it be bad 2 ask her wut she knows?

2007-01-13 03:31:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi friends,
Iam single man.I was involved in one of the deep kind of meditation. Afterwhich I didnt have any interest in sex.I even try to watch many porns but it didnt excite me.I didnt feel to touch any gal.Nudity didnt create any feeling in me & even sometimes I hate it.Its completely impossible for me to watch any gal in nude & I even cant think of touching her.
Iam going to engage after some months.
Do you think I should inform about this to the bride?
Is this thing will create any problem?
I didnt have any interest in sex .Is it the sex is so much important
thing in marriage ?
help me please help me
Is going to be crime against my wife if I deny her sex ?
one more thing iam not interested in kids thats another problem I have.

2007-01-13 03:31:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay we have been together for 5 years, have a 14 month old son and another little boy on the way due in June. Lately I cannot find it in myself to be attracted to him in a sexual way. I really want to be intimate but the desire is just not there. Any advice?

2007-01-13 03:30:14 · 18 answers · asked by flaminfortune 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How important is my "sex life" supposed to be? How much sex I should I have at my age? I am a 23 years old guy.

2007-01-13 03:30:06 · 13 answers · asked by honestman23 1 in Singles & Dating

a plate of spagetti?

2007-01-13 03:29:55 · 16 answers · asked by William H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i close wit this 2 men..
their are my classmate..
'S' is that i admire..and next one 'P'is person whose admire to me..
the problem is 'P' really need me 2 be his gf..
but im stil waiting 4 da 'S' to be my bf...

both have diffrent characteristic..
'P' know that i like 'S', but 'S' didnt know that i like him.
but i know that 'S' also have same feelling with me..
i dont want to lose any of this two men..
i really need them, but it doesnt mean that i want to play wit their feeling..
so wat should i do..??

2007-01-13 03:29:49 · 5 answers · asked by AG 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 03:28:14 · 17 answers · asked by john c 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 21. i am pregnant and due in 2 months, i dont know the sex of my baby but i am stuck choosing a name for a boy and a girl. does anyone have any nice names.

2007-01-13 03:28:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-13 03:27:17 · 8 answers · asked by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend is cheating on her husband with another man. They've been doing this for over a year and my friend does not seem to care. I recently found out that she has been using me as her cover (telling her husband she's coming to my house, going shopping with me, etc.) while she goes out with this other man. She has even begun having this man over to her house while her husband is working. She has admitted she's only staying with her husband so that she can divorce him in a few months (once this other man gets his own place) and claim her "feelings have changed" and take him to court so she can keep the house. Her husband is an incredibly sweet, hardworking man who devotes all of his time to her. Should I break down and tell her husband what he's doing? And if not, what options do I have?

2007-01-13 03:26:23 · 21 answers · asked by forever.devoted 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im purchasing a promise ring. and i want info on it i know what it is but when i purchase it what to look for. and excataly how do you present it???

2007-01-13 03:26:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce