I've been told that people tend to thwart their emotions (the negative ones) out on the people that they care the most about - basically, because they CAN.
My girlfriend is still with me so that's an obvious sign she wants to be - she is the type who would end it if she felt like ending it, after all. Anyhow, I get the full grunt of her negative emotions and she's always horrible to me and just mean and nasty.
1) So, my original question: Would my girlfriend be horrible and push me away because she cares about me?
2) What can I do about that?
2007-01-13 03:34:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I FELT GUILTY FOR A MINUTE THERE! IT FELT AS IF YOU WHERE TALKING ABOUT ME. I THINK THE BEST THING IS TO LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL.I BET SHE LOVES YOU AS WELL SO MAKE HER AWEARE OF THE POWER THAT YOU HAVE AS WELL! NOT THAT YOU ARE COMPETING WITH HER, JUST MAKE HER LOOK AT THE SITUATION FROM YOUR SIDE! PULL AWAY A LITTLE JUST TO MAKE HER REALISE HOW MUCH SHE MISSES YOU AND I THINK SHE WILL REALISE JUST HOW MUCH YOU MEAN TO HER!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-01-13 03:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by Divalicous25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sometimes the people closest to us, do tend to do that. However your girlfriend may be reacting because of things in her past history that needs to be healed.
Try to work tru it with her and if that doesn't work -Get her professional help.
2007-01-13 03:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by singsong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some they like to abuse you. Others they like to be abused.
2007-01-13 03:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by Eva 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋