2007-01-13 03:27:17 · 8 answers · asked by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well its usually near the end of a relationship or when you get to the point in the relationship where you can never go back to how it once was, yes i've been in one. Its like when you fall in love with someone and stay in love for years and then so many things happen in your lives together or you do certain things to one another where you no longer feel the same twords them and cant undo the effects from whatever happened, the way you treated eachother was in a way you wouldnt even do to a friend or your worst enemy, so as a result you hate them, so your no longer in love with them but you love them and at the same time you wanna ring there neck and shoot them when you look at them, and ofcourse at this point its hopeless and you my aswell leave, Kim
2007-01-13 03:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yep... absolutely. It means you love them but there are things you really hate. It means that even though you love them, you argue like 2 people who hate each other. It's very unhealthy. If it's real love, it might be worth getting coupl counselling to work through the problems. It it's not real love, then get out of the relationship.
2007-01-13 03:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a dysfunctional relationship between two people who are ill-suited to be with one another, but for one reason or another they seem to enjoy the sick relationship anyway. It includes lots of drama, crying, hand wringing, passive-aggressive behavior, whining for advice from friends and family and then doing just the opposite and staying together.
I'm healthy emotionally, so no; I've never been in such a relationship but I've been victimized by being a friend and/or relative of such people. Takes a while to realize you are being sucked in, then you just don't give a damn what happens to them.
2007-01-13 03:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have. I deeply loved my husband and I deeply hated his gambling and never being home, his chasing women and never having enough money for his kids. I weighed the Love items on one side and the Hate items on the other and guess which was the heaviest? He became my EX and I moved on with my kids and my life.
2007-01-13 03:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by sashali 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's when you would love to get to know this guy, but hate the fact that he's not asking for your #
2007-01-14 11:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. with chocolate.
Love chocolate, hate that I can't eat all I want.
2007-01-13 05:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by oh kate! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it's when somebody u love hurt u so bad that u never forget what he/she caused u and still can't get over him/her and still also u won't be with him,and it's terrible
2007-01-13 03:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by She 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes ...and it's hard
2007-01-13 03:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋