Hi,
I met my girlfriend about 4 months ago, she really cool and i like her alot.
Recently though we havent been sleeping together, think its been 3 weeks. I slept in her bed with her last weekend, and she seemed to push me away whenever i got close. When i took her out she'd make an excuse not to kiss me.
Last week we went out for a meal, i bought her a rose and she kissed me after that, similar to when we first started going out.
She's told me she loves me, but is she just saying it because she hasnt got anyone else and its easier to just stay with me.
Last night we went out and we kissed a few times, seemed to be like it used to
She has been ill over christmas, when i took her out shopping she got into bad moods, do you reckon this has put her off me?
She always seems to be snapping at me and acts really harsh for no reason.
I need to ask her about it, but im not sure what im going to say to her which will not make me sound insecure.
Unless it is just me feeling a bit insecure?
Help!
2007-01-13 03:37:34 · 8 answers · asked by Matt L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We had something really special before christmas, then she had the flu for 2 weeks.
The weekend where i slept over, she said 'this is not the time of the month to argue with me' when we were debating about something.. so she might not of been able to had sex with me.
When we first started going out she told me that after a while she just cant bring herself to have sex with her boyfriends, but before she had the flu she kept telling me i was different.
She has in december gone onto birth control so that could have affected her moods over crimbo?
She seems to be warming back up to me, over the past week. Possibly because we havent been together much. But im just going to have to talk to her about it.
Cheers.
2007-01-13 04:07:15 · update #1
i once did that to a guy when i didnt know how to break up with him-she is letting you down easy dude i am sorry to break it to you
2007-01-13 03:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by amazing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if you look insecure? Basically, that you've noticed should make her see what a nice guy you are, so just ask her upright the next time she does it. Dont get annoyed, or even upset. Just ask...blank face, dont lean back (or forwards) just stay stock still and ask: OK, whats up? You feeling alright?
And thenlet the convo. carry on for itself y'know?
2007-01-13 03:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, you're a goner. She's tired of having you in her life but doesn't want to be alone. Chances are she's looking and when she finds someone, you'll be cut lose. I advise you be the one doing the cutting here and bail out while you have the chance and still have a little bit of pride intact.
2007-01-13 03:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by no name brand canned beans 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet she has a dog named Orla, and keeps the ashes of her dead dog Nala on her TV??? Why? She's nuts!! Dude she does this to every guy she meets...If I'm right about the identify go to my account and email me her first name only and I in return will send you the proof you need. I have the truth and I know you won't like it!!! Sorry bud She still stalks me!!! Like I said I have real proof!!!! Does she still cry about her job situation too Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha (TAG ----> Your IT) HA HA HA How about her "special" movie collection??? I bought them all Ha Ha Ha
2007-01-20 02:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by SamIam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you have reason to worry. she's either pregnant, going through a ruff point in her life,guilty or just not into you anymore.
2007-01-13 03:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by Krishy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to be happy and if she cant see that u need to leave her. obviously she is not happy with u. make it easy on her and just leave. sometimes u have to do what is best even if it hurts
2007-01-13 03:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can i quote something that you just said!
"She's told me she loves me, but is she just saying it because she hasn't got anyone else and its easier to just stay with me."
2007-01-20 15:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by yubyub26r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's pushing u away,and she's really harsh with those words,get over her
2007-01-13 03:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by She 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋