Hi friends,
Iam single man.I was involved in one of the deep kind of meditation. Afterwhich I didnt have any interest in sex.I even try to watch many porns but it didnt excite me.I didnt feel to touch any gal.Nudity didnt create any feeling in me & even sometimes I hate it.Its completely impossible for me to watch any gal in nude & I even cant think of touching her.
Iam going to engage after some months.
Do you think I should inform about this to the bride?
Is this thing will create any problem?
I didnt have any interest in sex .Is it the sex is so much important
thing in marriage ?
help me please help me
Is going to be crime against my wife if I deny her sex ?
one more thing iam not interested in kids thats another problem I have.
2007-01-13 03:31:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you are going to have to disscuss that with your girlfriend and she what she thinks.
2007-01-13 03:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is going to have a problem with that , especially at first. Now I could be totally wrong and she could be an out of the ordinary Gal but most women if you deny them for long enough they are going to turn on you no matter how much she loves you. Dont be afraid to give her the truth and be a man and be willing to compromise to her needs also, because that and trust are what a marriage has to have to stay strong through the years. If none of this is possible for you then maybe the monistary is your calling man. God gives all talents normal or out of the realm of reality, use them for him to the best of your ability. And by the way good luck.
2007-01-13 11:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by blaynsdad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not sound like a good candidate for marriage. Yes sex is very important in a marriage and YES you should tell this girl your not interested in sex or having children. Those are at the top of the list why people get married. This would not be fair to the girl if you were to marry her unless she feels the same way.
2007-01-13 11:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a discussion with your bride to be on these issues.
You might also want to seek professional assistance-seeking this type of help does not mean that there is something wrong with you just that you need help and can't do this on your own.
Prospone the engagement/wedding until you feel that you have these issues sorted out. Sex in marriage is an important part of being married.
2007-01-13 11:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by singsong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you definantly need to go to your fiance and talk to her about your feelings, no sex isnt the most important thing in a marriage but lets face it it is important....and if your withdrawing from her and she doesnt know why then yes that is a problem. you CAN NOT go into a marriage with out her know your feelings about not wanting kids dude that is what most women dream of since childhood( becoming a mother ofr the first time). that will ruin your marriage and make for a very fast divorce. just be honnest with her and tell her how you feel. you never know what will happen but if you lie to her or hide it form her you can almost bet on it being doomed from the start.
2007-01-13 11:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by rebecca t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was watching a tv program the other day on Asexuals. These are people who are straight, but have no interest in sex. They have relationships based on feelings...something like that. Maybe that is your case?
I would DEFINITLY tell your bride about this. This may cause a problem as she may take it personally. I think denying your wife of sex would maybe lead her into the arms of another man (we have needs too).
Does your bride want kids? If she does, you HAVE to tell her that...
Good luck :)
2007-01-13 11:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by Newmomofone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might want to do another meditation and get ya groove back...just kidding...If you about to get engaged then how is it that u are if you dont have any interest n any sexual encounters??...Find out first about your problem.. and see what happens..but yes u will have to inform the future bride..and if she really loves you and it doesnt bother her she will be ok with it...I think you have alot to figure out bout yourself and life before you make the big move and involve someone elses feelings!!!...
2007-01-13 11:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by confused69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think YES she needs to know all of this, she is about to marry someone who may not be the person she thinks he is. This will end in disaster if you don't. She does not deserve this.She more than likley has the dreams that most married women have before getting married. Making love to the man she married and then having a family with him.
2007-01-13 11:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a very big part of any marriage.
You need to find that part of sex that used to excite you. I may take some work but, there is something that you have turned off in your head that you need to flip the on switch back on.
Good Luck
2007-01-13 11:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her the truth because sex is very important in a marriage. It's more than a physical act or a way to procreate, it's a way for the couple to reconnect.
If you love her, tell her.
2007-01-13 11:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What on earth are you talking about, you are going to get married. Face the facts, you may be gay.
2007-01-13 11:35:50 · answer #11 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋