from 4 years i met a nice guy then w became best best best friends but then he loved me and asked me to be his girlfriend i was going to say yes but then w had a fight 2 years later w he told me called me because i was ill then he was calling me every day and he was telling me i miss u he was making people 2 call me to let me go out with them and he brought me flowers one day w was out then he came n i told him that i love him he didn't give me any reaction but the he called me later every day and on my bday he brought me a present and if i was standing with any boy he becomes mad and if i went anywhere without telling him he shout's at me and he was telling to all people that he likes me or love me but the i asked once he told me if i became his gf he will lose me and then i asked him again he told me that im just afriend so can any body tell me that all he had done his love or what plzzzzzzzzzzz answer.
2007-01-13 03:34:43 · 11 answers · asked by shereen h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to talk to him about the relationship.
If you can not be truthful with each other then there is not way it will ever work.
Good Luck
2007-01-13 03:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Run don't walk the other direction. This guy is controlling. A very bad sign. Anybody that gets angry because you are with someone or go someplace without reporting to him is nothing but trouble.
Abusers use gifts and say, "I love you," to control the other person. You do not owe him an explanation of where you go, what you do or with whom spend time.
I would not agree to be his girlfriend, I would not be his friend.
2007-01-13 11:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by mutvulture 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be kidding, right? this guy sounds like a manipulative control freak. this isn't love, it's an abusive relationship, and if you do become his girlfriend, it's only going to get worse. the yelling will very soon turn into physical abuse.
you must be very emotionally damaged to even be thinking that this might be love.
2007-01-13 11:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by belfus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch out for that verbal abuse. he is obviously crazy about you, but if you don't share those feelings you have to keep telling him that you don't share his feelings and he should buying you gifts, even if you like them. He may think he can win you over - over time. But that yelling doesn't sound good - better keep your friends around you.
2007-01-13 11:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I'm not sure what to say. I can't really follow the story because it's hard to read just one long run on sentence.
2007-01-13 11:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sending mixes sign also sound like he controling, you might want to think about being with him.
you don't have to deal with what he dish out, its up to you, How you feel about it ? if your not happy go on how you feel about it, that your answer.
2007-01-13 11:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by msredbonel1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is a bit confused about his feeling for you. i wouldn't mess with him. your much better off to foget him and move on
2007-01-13 11:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by sandras77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whew......That was one long sentence!
Yeah, I guess it could be love.
2007-01-13 11:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by kana121569 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you are just afraid
2007-01-13 11:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doens't love you, he's still hurt about before and doesn't respect you the way he used to.
2007-01-13 11:38:30 · answer #10 · answered by Qu'est ce que tu penses? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋