Should I Ask Him Out?

Question

I'm 13 years old and around 2 months ago my boyfriend dumped me. I was heartbroken and didn't get over it for a while. Then he went out with one of my mates but she has recently dumped him. He's now single and I still really like him. problem is, he probably doesn't like me (coz he dumped me). I know youre not meant to go back to the boy who broke your heart but everyone deserves a second chance dont they? I really really like him but i dont know what to do! Please help! Thanks x

Answer 1

find another boy...have some fun.

Answer 2

I've had a similar boy problem so I know what I'm talking about and know how you must feel at the moment! I think you should first of all tell your friend [who dumped him] how you feel, as in, what you have described on here and see what she says about it. Is the guy still talking to you, just as like random talk or as a frind if you know what I mean? If he is either get your friend to tell him how you feel and for her to report back to you what he says or for her to ask him how he feels about you but make this a ransom part of conversation so it doesn't seem to him that your frind was asked by you to do it. Or just try to talk to him, patch things up become mates, if you aren't already that is. And when the time is right try and speak to him about how you feel, and even, your feelings for him may pass away soon,
[mine have, for the guy I liked]. I hope at least some of that makes sense! Hope you sort it out! good luck =] x ST

Answer 3

I think you need to grow up, young lady, before you start asking boy's out, your not even old enough to know what real love is and if he's dumped you, then that means he's no longer interested. Perhaps you should concentrate on your education and learn what life is all about, before thinking about boys !!!

Answer 4

Before u do anything stupid, think is this guy worth it... i mean u might make a fool outta yourself if he doesn't like u. so ask someone to help u find out if this guy likes u or not. But he might just b desperate, since he has just been dumped or doesn't want to bad and uses u. u can also make him come to u or make him jealous by going out with someone else and show him what he's missing.

Answer 5

Your heart was hurt for a reason.
Going back to a relationship is like drinking sour milk than putting it back in hopes that it will taste better later.

You are after all 13. There is no need to go back to that heartache if you can avoid it.

Go have some fun with your friends. When he is no longer thought #1 look for another boyfriend.

Answer 6

he dumped u and caused u humiliation.
don't crawl back to him.
u will always be not good enough to this one.
have more respect 4 urself.
find someone who deserves u and will not hurt u.
or
wait for him to come to u on hands and knees admitting he made
an awful mistake and he is so sorry, u wouldn't believe it.
anything else won't do.
it's tough but u have to safeguard ur own heart otherwise it
will cause problems later on. u have to remember that u deserved much better than he afforded u.
good luck
xx
(daughter ~ same age as u)

Answer 7

dont worry honey , your still young with loads of oppertunity for boyfriends. Iam 21 and ive had my heart broke loads but iam with someone now that i never thought i would be with and we are both happy in love. you sound quite mature for your age and am sure your really nice, i think you should try and forget about this boy and find somebody that really appreciates you, if it didnt work first time round its not going to work second time round. your young go out have fun, at your age friends and family are more important than boyfriends, good luck ;0)

Answer 8

Do not ask him back he will only use you and dump you later, Find someone else There are plenty of fish in the sea as they say. So find yourself a new fella

Answer 9

Don't go anywhere near this guy. He broke your heart. At this point, you need to find new guys to hang out with, not as boyfriends, just as friends. Go out with your mates, go to the movies, go shopping, don't worry about having a boyfriend. I know you still like him, and yeah you will until you find a guy who treats you well, and wants to date you too. Just be patient, and don't go out with this guy again. Enjoy being single and not having a boyfriend to deal with. I hope this helps!

Answer 10

Give him up, move on with your life. If he cared so much for you he would never have dumped you in the first place.

Answer 11

trust me sweetheart don't go back to him. like you said he dumped you. he then went with your friend which is wrong. Don't go back to him. if he tells you to go away then you will look stupid and feel horrible and he will take the p*ss out of you. Look for someone else who will treat you right.