Family & Relationships - 13 January 2007

I`m an average weight, 5`4, 117lbs. Green/blue eyes, clear skin. I`ve been told by many people that I was very pretty. I`ve never had a boyfriend before. Is there really something wrong with me?

P.S. I have a soft, Texas drawl that I`ve been hiding at school for years because I got teased about it, but certain words just slip out and I end up blushing like crazy. I look like a tomato. Does my accent and/or blushing turn guys off?

2007-01-13 13:40:02 · 14 answers · asked by random 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband left suddenly after 6 years of marriage. He moved in with a female co-worker that he was seeing. We have 2 children together, My family and friends say I am better off without him and that they will turn their backs if I take him back. We have been in contact a couple times a week since he left and the communication has been on a very friendly level. I know that I love him, But it will take a lot of time and counseling to heal the wounds... advice ?

2007-01-13 13:39:43 · 21 answers · asked by groupie94 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay i dont live with my mom or dad.. i live with my aunt. Im really scared of my mom and i get sick everytime i see her. She is a drug user but she is at a rehab getting help... shes been in a rehab for 3 yrs. And soon she is comming out of the rehab. And im scared she is going to relaps! What do i do to help me calm my nerves?

2007-01-13 13:37:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what is the best way to figure out if a guy you have been dating and has really liked you is now not interested or mad at you for some reason..?? is it best to call him up and ask him.. or text.. or what? and what do you ask.. do you just be blunt and say: are you mad at me? or did i do something wrong? or do you work your way up to it some other way? what are some lines you can say to ask that............????!! thanks for your help!!

2007-01-13 13:37:27 · 6 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Singles & Dating

She refuses to put it down, she has failed all her school classes,she will not talk to people in the house she text messages them, and her father ( my son) refuses to take the phone away from her. He feels guilty because her mother ( they were never married) recently passed away and he is a single dad who never knew he had a child until 8 years ago and had no idea how to parent. He treats her like an adult and she is a rude spoiled brat. He travels 2 weeks out of each month on business so she stays with us and she is terrible. She refuses to talk to us, she only comes out of her room to eat and use the restroom. I don't text message so there is no communication. I think she needed a spanking several years ago but it is too late. She NEVER had a normal childhood. Until my son found out about her she lived with her mom in a truck and with friends etc. Never had anything stable. Help

2007-01-13 13:37:23 · 8 answers · asked by Frazzled 1 in Family

It would only be physical and short term. I know we'd never work in a relationship but I can't stop thinking about him ina very adult way.

2007-01-13 13:37:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i have this guy friend and he gave me his number out of no where then says call me so i tried and he wont answer so i tried this other guy that i like and hes my other friends best friend..but he wont answer either after he told me to call him...what should i do?

2007-01-13 13:36:07 · 15 answers · asked by amber j 2 in Singles & Dating

I really want a myspace because I'm going to a different high school than all of my middle school friends, they all have one and I want to communicate with them on there. My parents will not even let me have a private myspace. I also just found out some people are making fun of me, harassing me, and embarrasing me on myspace and I want a myspace so this will stop and so that I can defend myself! If I talk to them about it in person, they will think I'm a stalker or something for going on myspace, reading their comments and finding out! Thanks

2007-01-13 13:36:07 · 15 answers · asked by theaterfreak 3 in Friends

2007-01-13 13:35:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at work this girl is drop-dead, the rest are mess. Anyways I am kinda quiet maybe a bit shy. I've got a bit acne but its going away day by day and its better now. But I got myself to say "hey ____ how you doing!?" she said "fine, how about you". I replied with "Im pretty good!".
I dont think I said anything corny or stupid but I would like to know what the next step would be? Any advice would be appreciated.

2007-01-13 13:35:45 · 4 answers · asked by jm 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 13:34:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you go on a rollercoaster, go on a freefall ride, or sky dive.

It's not buteerflies in my stomach or stomach upside down. It's something along the lines of:

"My heart in my throat" or "My stomach in my head"

Anyone remember how it goes???

2007-01-13 13:34:40 · 3 answers · asked by Nick32836 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been shooting for about 6 or 7 years. I currently use a d200 nikon digital slr. The person that has asked me to shoot for her only wanted the wedding shot. I am used to shooting on a per hour basis.

2007-01-13 13:34:35 · 3 answers · asked by b 1 in Weddings

2007-01-13 13:34:34 · 8 answers · asked by cozzief1 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm in love with my best friend [who's a guy].. i'm 18.. i've loved him ever since i was 13.. we'd hang out.. and we went to see fireworks together and we sat with a blanket in the trunk of his car [he has an SUV].. he used to bang on my window and scare me while i was like watching tv because he was "bored" and thought it was funny.. and he'd wind up staying for a few hours, and we'd just talk the whole time.. was he really bored, or did he want to see me?.. our parents are really close too.. so once, when i was about 14, i was over there for a bbq, and i caught him staringfrom the corner of my eye, and he looked away.. he's pretty shy around girls.. even though he's adorable! idk if he's just not saying he's liked me, or he really doesn't! i feel weird talking to him about it cuz i'll feel like a fool if he really doesn't like me! we're going to different colleges next year, and i don't want to think of "what could've been".. it makes me upset now just thinking about it.. please help

2007-01-13 13:34:22 · 20 answers · asked by beach blondie xox 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean its just cause for a teacher hes SO hot and I mean he doesn't look like hes 37 but he is... and I had a uh "Dream" (like with me and him..alone in a classroom) about him a long time ago and ever since its changed my point of view on him. I think its weird that I have infatuation for a teacher... and I'm just wondering if I'm the only one that finds it weird. And its not like I like him or anything I just have infatuation for him... is that wrong? Cause I'm 16 and hes like 37, is that okay? Please help me... this has really been bothering me.

2007-01-13 13:34:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 13:33:48 · 12 answers · asked by thesunshineking 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex is not paying enough child support and I would like to find out his salary without the expense of court. Thanks

2007-01-13 13:32:58 · 27 answers · asked by 7d8 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-13 13:32:42 · 3 answers · asked by Skypride 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Somebody knocks on your door.
It has started to rain and your clothes are on the line.
Somebody is calling you.
You have the bathtub running and water is fixing to go over..
Your baby starts to cry.

2007-01-13 13:32:04 · 4 answers · asked by curious George 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

well, we had a break because he said alot of feelings has been lost. we had a date after teh break it was really fun. Now, after a week, he message me back. and yesterday he ask me out and he came over at my house. he stayed over for the night but we didn't talk about us. instead, he said i am different and i changed and i asked him if he likes the new me, he said yes. I don't think i changed for him, i actually became a better person myself. Today, we talked and I ask him if he wanna go eat dinner w/ me later and he said sure and i told him to book a day off work on that day. (before on the first date after break, he said he didn't know if he will go out w/ me when i asked). Also, today i told him that i told my mom about him, and he was excited and asked me what i said. (he was quite not happy before that i hide him from my parents). I am confused, what should i do? should i just let things be and not ask him about our relationship? on a side note, i'm really happy being with him

2007-01-13 13:31:44 · 6 answers · asked by missyc 1 in Singles & Dating

everyone always says guys hate when their girl is clingy and needy.. but what exactly do you guys consider "too clingy" and do you REALLY hate it that badly. and what if the guy himself is really clingy at the beginning and texts/calls every night... but then is it normal for them to just go from being that clingy to not??! because this guy i have been dating was really clingy for like the past 3 weeks and now all the sudden he hardly talks anymore. (for like the past 3 days) i don't know if someone clued him in and made him feel stupid.. or is there perhaps a loss of interest? but he was just all talkative to me like 3 days ago... but then all the sudden.. i don't know what happened.. because i haven't done anything wrong i don't think.. i haven't done anything different.

2007-01-13 13:30:56 · 10 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Singles & Dating

The number 13 has been monumental in my life for the past 3 months. Could you tell me whether it is important or not?

2007-01-13 13:30:46 · 10 answers · asked by Artsy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-13 13:30:29 · 10 answers · asked by metroactus 4 in Singles & Dating

for a long while, i never found a girl I was intersted in, it never bothered me, but then, I met this amazing girl, shes in my school and we talk a fair bit, and the more i talk to her the more i like her, infact i was going to ask her out, and given it a lot of thought, then i found out she has a boyfriend, this was some time ago, and i still like her, i want to move on but i cant (I'd rather just be able to go out with her, but moving on seems like the only logical thing now), i try and try but it the more i do, the more it hits me shes really special, and i would just like to be able to tell her what i think but i can't becuase i don't want to create awkwardness between us, put her off completly, or just be friends, and its totally unreasonble to expect her to just leave a relationship for some guy that tells her he likes her. more than anything i want to stop beating myself up about it. help?

2007-01-13 13:29:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is getting married in less than 2 weeks! She seriously need help for her photo montage of childhood and courtship photos. Any mandarin songs suitable for it to recommend? Thanks for all your help!! =)

2007-01-13 13:29:51 · 2 answers · asked by Michelle T 1 in Weddings

She is 20, beautiful and a little naughty. I want to know if she really likes me or is just playin' me for what she might get like gifts or cash. I speak to her once and a while and text almost every day

2007-01-13 13:29:14 · 11 answers · asked by older 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been best friends with her for my whole life, then my other friend (not best friend) comes along and is winning her friendship! For instance, my best friend has her before me on her myspace, my best friend is CONSTANTLY going over her house, and my best friend NEVER calls me anymore, but has time to chat for 2 hours with my other friend! What do I do! I cry everyday about this, I really don't want to lose my BFF but theres just no way to win her friendship back!!!! ;(

2007-01-13 13:29:12 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Wild Thing♥ 2 in Friends

do girls like to be called
1. cute
2. hot
3. sexy
4. pretty
5. beautiful
6. awsome
7. cool
8. nice
9. others....

....pick one or two

2007-01-13 13:26:55 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 27 now and wondering if I'm getting old and should have a family by now. What do you think?

2007-01-13 13:26:54 · 31 answers · asked by Nic 2 in Family