I'm 27 now and wondering if I'm getting old and should have a family by now. What do you think?
2007-01-13 13:26:54 · 31 answers · asked by Nic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just thought I should add that I'm not wondering if I should start a family yet (would be hard without a partner!) just wondering what age most people start their families at. Just feeling old I guess cos I was my birthday last week.
2007-01-13 13:45:29 · update #1
I had a family as soon as I was born
2007-01-13 13:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by Paul 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Well here's time to be honest.
My boyfriend is 26...I'm 19. His birthday is in August and mine is in February. We talk about marriage and will probably get married within the next few years...
So here you have a prime example of a man only a year younger than you, and me, almost 20. Some people say that 20 is too young and others (ignorant others) say 26 is the good age and he shouldnt wait any longer.
I don't think age matters. You see people getting married at prime ages all the time... and by prime i mean... with gray in their hair and wrinkles in their eyes.
I don't think you should worry about how old you are...you should instead worry about finding the right one. The time will come regardless of how old you are.
Best of luck.
-Mick
2007-01-14 01:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by vanishx1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
27 sounds really great to me.
r u in a relationship?
does ur partner feel the same?
would it put a potential partner off?
do u need to advertise that this is what u want?
r u sure it IS what u want?
do u have a career to think of?
could u combine the two?
trouble is, there are so many questions to consider and all we have is ur question. if u feel the time is right, u need to do something about it. i wish u all the best Guess how old i was when i had my first? I am a man tho.
2007-01-13 21:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my son at the age of 27 and I felt ready.There is no particular age that you should start a family,it just depends on how you feel ,and how your partner feels about it,because it obviously not something that should be taken lightly ,or that you can take back so easily once its happened.Your not too old by the way,there are plenty of women who have careers first and family's later.Just let nature take it's course!
2007-01-14 17:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by pinkydinkydoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't an age to start a family! It's when the individual is ready... for some people that may be 18, other 35. When you're ready you'll know.
2007-01-13 21:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by Fay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, no way are you getting old at 27.
I have had to struggle to bring my daughter up as I had her very young. Children are very draining on time, emotions and financial resources. (don't get me wrong, my daughter was worth the struggle)
If you have the stability of a secure relationship where he will support you 100% and have a little bit of money behind you then do it if you feel it is the right time.
If not, them wait until you feel the time is right.
But it is your decision at the end of the day... All we on here can do is perhaps offer a little guidance..
Good luck in whatever decision you make.
2007-01-13 21:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by KJA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres no right age. just when you're ready. if you rush things you wont feel as comfortable as if things had taken their natural route, and any relationships could break down as a result. a lot of women now days are waiting until they are in their mid 30's before they settle down and start a family so 27 is still quite young. take your time and things will take their natural course.
2007-01-13 21:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by paulamathers 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At any age you are ready. Be 100% sure because it's a forever commitment so you should be in it 100%. There are so many choices available to women now and many are choosing not to even have children at all.
2007-01-13 21:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by teacuptakeaway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me i will like 2 start a family at 22 as i got a bf and you can start a family with a man or not because some men make you wish you never met them.sis!!! age doesnt matter met a man you love cuz if ther is happiness in a relationship then there will be a plan for a family (children) cuz kids need to be rise a happy and peaceful place cuz they are sensible you think they dont know wat going on but it affect their childhood.so be wise in making decision dont make it because of your age please and goodluck
2007-01-14 00:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by miaro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old is mostly about what you feel,rather than age.There's "no age" which you "should" have a family..But,I think mature attitude will be helpful to keep a family running smoothly...it may make your life easier without too much confusion that you know what you really want from having a family.and appreciate what you get from it ..Life itself is experience..so..just follow your heart..Bless you
2007-01-13 21:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by just care 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I STARTED MY FAMILY AT 16 YRS OLD, I HAD 3 SONS BY THE AGE OF 21 AND I HAVE HAD A DAUGHTER WHEN I WAS 38 YRS OLD. I HAVE NOT REGRETTED STARTING YOUNG AT ALL. PROUD TO BE A PARENT. I NEVER WORKED AT ALL ALWAYS BEEN HOME TO CARE FOR THEM, ( AS I DON'T BELIEVE THAT ANYBODY SHOULD DUMP THEIR CHILDREN ON CHILDMINDERS OR CRECHES), WITH MY HUSBAND SUPPORTING OUR FAMILY
2007-01-17 17:28:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋