It would only be physical and short term. I know we'd never work in a relationship but I can't stop thinking about him ina very adult way.
2007-01-13 13:37:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This feeling will pass, either in a few hours, weeks, or months but it will pass. Keep it to yourself and mybe your therapist till then. Fantasies are ok, even healthy but think before you join this group of women. It's true that you may end things well, that his wife will never find out; but you'll live with the guilt forever. If he's going to cheat on his family then he'll do it with anyone anyway, you don't want a guy like that.
2007-01-13 13:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel Green 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm speaking from experience. Don't do it. You're only going to get attached and it will be hard to let go. You think it will only be short term, but what if the sex is great. You won't want to let go. In my situation i didnt know the guy was married at first, he said he was single. So technically I didnt know about his wife at first. But once i found out I couldnt get rid of the guilt. And also the fear that it would happen to me in the future when i was married...So definitely don't do it....Its not even worth it!!!
2007-01-13 21:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's never good. You think it would only be physical, THAT'S WHAT YOU THINK, but usually things turn to be different and you might fall in love with him, or God knows what else, so just don't think anymore about that. Physical things are never good at the end. Better look for a guy who you could have a very nice relationship with, why would you want to be somebody's sex toy????
2007-01-13 21:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
very bad. everyone gets crushes and fantasizes sometimes. but u would be hurting yourself, him , his wife and family by doing this. he would also be at fault, but so would you. stay away. nothing good ever comes of it. i have had friends who did this and even ended up with the person, and then later were cheated on by them. if he can't be faithful now what makes you think he will be faithful to you. don't forget Karma, what bad you do to someone else is visited on you 3 times. I say no way. run the other direction.
2007-01-13 21:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by honeyc73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya it would be bad. It could lead to his wife wanting a divorce. Possible suicide by the husband or spouse. And result in the children growing up in a divorced household. Move on you and everyone else will end up paying for you mistake.
2007-01-13 21:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by Magician 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bad. put yourself in the place of his wife and kids. imagine if your dad or the one you love just decided to go out with some random person you hadn't even heard about. how would you feel about your dad? use your willpower and respect the guys family. besides, if it's just going to be physical and short term, whats the point?
2007-01-13 21:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by serena b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O, you are already know the answer. It's not a right thing to do. You are talking about jeopardizing a wife, children, maybe once a stable home. Why wreck it?? Would you like someone to wreck your once happy home, for a woman in heat? Why should the children suffer? How about his wife? The family..tsk tsk tsk..I already feel for them..
2007-01-13 21:48:15 · answer #7 · answered by jcsas_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be terrible, awful, horrendous. Dont' think about it. Find someone else to take your mind off of him. That'd tear the hearts of his kids and wife and other family members out if and WHEN they found out. Most likely it'd get around. Dont' think about it. Don't think about it. Can't you just imagine all the people you'd hurt just to satisfy your .... cravings?
2007-01-13 21:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by Here To Help 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably not too bad for you. Him, on the other hand, the cost could be a wife, family, huge financial obligations, and a host of additional things.
You'd just be the "other woman".
2007-01-13 21:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by jack w 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you think long and hard about it. One or both of you will want more out of the relationship. Don't you want someone that you can call anytime you want? That will always be there for you? Forget about it and find a nice guy that can commit to you.
2007-01-13 21:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by Redhead 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋