i do not, and CAN not love someone after they have cheated. I feel that it is the worst thing you can do in a reltionship, and it changes how i look at a person forever, and i can never be with that person again. I know that in most cases 'once a cheater always a cheater' applies, but even when it doesn't, they still betrayed your trust. And i don't think the relationship is ever the same.
2007-01-13 13:41:09
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answer #1
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answered by Stark 6
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You can love someone no matter what happens
LOVE is a BIG word.
If he is cheating then clearly that is a problem not with him but the both of you. Somehting is a miss LOOK DEEP AND HONESTLY IN the relationship and see what has changed.
2007-01-13 21:44:16
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answer #2
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answered by Paint N Paper 2
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Once you love someone, you never stop loving them. The feelings you have for them never fully leave you. That doesn't mean that you should stay with them though. In cases like these, it's best to leave him. You'll always love him deep down, but it's best for you to move on, before your love for him hurts you anymore.
2007-01-13 21:41:37
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answer #3
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answered by Carolinii 2
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that is a good question. i don't think i could...you could be in love with someone while they cheated...but it would break my heart. so im not sure how you would. but actually why would you want to love someone that is cheating on you. if they are cheating, they aren't worth your time and you can do better.
2007-01-13 21:41:36
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answered by Anonymous
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I know it's cliche, but... once a cheater, always a cheater. Don't let yourself get hurt by them again!
2007-01-13 21:40:36
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answer #5
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answered by Fluffster1 3
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you learn to forgive if you have faith that they won't do it again. it's hard and it takes a long time but it's worth it if they are really sorry for what they did.
2007-01-13 21:39:48
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answer #6
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answered by KJ 6
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u might forgive but u will never forget.
2007-01-13 21:39:20
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answered by fajita 7
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you can't. you can forgive but you can't forget. And all your trust in that person is lost.
2007-01-13 21:45:06
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answered by dimples 1
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u dont.... you should break up with them because they probably cheat again
2007-01-13 21:38:25
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answered by Nina 2
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you dont
2007-01-13 21:39:35
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answered by vw chick 4
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