I mean its just cause for a teacher hes SO hot and I mean he doesn't look like hes 37 but he is... and I had a uh "Dream" (like with me and him..alone in a classroom) about him a long time ago and ever since its changed my point of view on him. I think its weird that I have infatuation for a teacher... and I'm just wondering if I'm the only one that finds it weird. And its not like I like him or anything I just have infatuation for him... is that wrong? Cause I'm 16 and hes like 37, is that okay? Please help me... this has really been bothering me.
2007-01-13 13:34:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 16 too, and I think it's totally normal. Think about it, the celebrities we are infactuated with are guys who are around that age, like Brad Pitt. Nothing wrong with being attracted to a guy so much like you are, us girls can't help it and sometimes we just have major infactuation ways about us. Don't let it bother ya. It's normal.
2007-01-13 14:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was watching this TV interview once and it was about this girl, which was about ur age, that was infatuated with her teacher and she acted upon her feelings. She found that the teacher felt the same. They kept their relationship a secret for months before someone found out. He was currently married at the time but then left his family, got another job after being fired and got married to this girl shortly before moving in together. So thats a possible outcome if u try something on him lol. Its just a phase and youll get over it so just be patient and u will find that ur feelings for him will eventually fade!
2007-01-13 13:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by tu_sweet189 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in fact its quite common for students to become infatuated with their teachers. The difficulty comes if you act on it. A sure recipe for disaster. No ethical teacher will become romantically involved with a student.
The same types of infatuations happen between doctors and patients, nurses and patients, rescuers and the people they save, etc. You need to see it for what it is and let it pass. By your tenth high school reunion you'll be saying, "Can you believe I had a crush on Mr. ????, when I was sixteen?"
2007-01-13 13:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by Magic One 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation: an emotional state characterized by intense desire, often romantic in nature.
Infatuations are superficial feelings that will fade in time, and as long as you don't act on them i think it's OK....By the way, I don't think it's weird. You are probobly just not use to these kinds of feelings.
2007-01-13 13:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by sammie g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this same thing in school when I was 16 even until I was 18. I am now 32, but still remember this teacher (nothing ever happened)
2007-01-13 13:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by Jay Jay 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I used to have a crush on this like..really hot teacher...but yeah it is completely normal..it happens all the time..don't let it bother you too much
2007-01-13 13:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by Jaden's Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time, to both sexes; there are even songs about it."Hot for Teacher", by Van Halen, is about just that phenomenon, from a guy's point of view.
2007-01-13 13:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes honey.It is very normal.I had a crush on one of my teachers when i was your age.You cant help it if hes hot.Get you a boyfriend that you really dig and you wont have as much time to spend on teach.
2007-01-13 13:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by GranGran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal to have fantasies and crushes at your age. It would be wrong to try and act on them with a teacher. It would be damaging and embarrassing to both of you.
2007-01-13 13:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by someone's mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...u have to keep in mind that he probably has a girl. and if he doesn't, then i dont think he wants a high school girl. talk 2 him, and tell him, maybe he can clear some things out for you. but tell him its another teacher u like and u trust him enough to tell him, just 2 see wut he would say about u and a teacher. good luck
2007-01-13 13:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋