what is the best way to figure out if a guy you have been dating and has really liked you is now not interested or mad at you for some reason..?? is it best to call him up and ask him.. or text.. or what? and what do you ask.. do you just be blunt and say: are you mad at me? or did i do something wrong? or do you work your way up to it some other way? what are some lines you can say to ask that............????!! thanks for your help!!
2007-01-13 13:37:27 · 6 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be open!!! ask if there is a problem:: do NOT ask what you did wrong/why would you even think it was you???maybe he's having feelings he can't handle about you, sometimes guys need to sort out their feelings before they can be okay with them. hopefully it will work out soon. : [)
2007-01-13 13:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by wick3dwench 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I usually can tell if he doesn't talk much. But sometimes I'm wrong about it, so I ask "Are you mad at me?" and if he doesn't say anything, he's mad, and if he isn't he just says "no, and says "Why? Should I be?". You should probably ask him in person or through phone if possible. Texting makes it seem like you don't care that much, and that you just want to know, especially if you use shortcuts like "R u mad at me?"
2007-01-13 21:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by Megan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he tie you to the bed and use duct tape to shut you up? Are you blind folded and then beaten? Do you like it? Do you invite your girlfriends over for him to have a threesome? I would be mad too. Unless you are calling me for threesome, don't call at all. He is probably thinking the same thing. Cause, aren't we all the same.
2007-01-13 21:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is not talking too u then he is mad at u..dont ask him all these questions..guys dont like it..girls do this a lot where they think all these things and the guy has not done anything.
2007-01-13 21:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to ask him face to face. but dont be like " r u mad at me" be like "is their something wrong, or is something bothering u. and then if he answers u could be like is it me?
good luck
2007-01-13 21:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by mbjack0407 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him...communication is the key to a good relationship,,you have the right to know what the heck is wrong with him,,,,,
2007-01-13 21:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋