Family & Relationships - 13 January 2007

So let's name the guy I like guy number 1 and the best friend number 2. Okay so number 2 asked me out but I like guy number 1. I told him I didn't like him that and that I hoped we could stay friends. Guy number 1, as soon as he heard about it seeing as how they are best friends, asked me " Why did you reject him?" I am close friends with both guys and I don't know. Should I just stop trying to get number 1 to like me altogether or what? I'm confused about this. Please help.

2007-01-13 13:26:19 · 5 answers · asked by COACH LOVE x3 1 in Singles & Dating

Most of the time, girls feel the need to be talking to feel comfortable. Are guys the same or do they not mind the silence?

2007-01-13 13:25:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and paying for everything and calling her and bringing flowers,

all the while she doesn't do anything that shows intiative?

2007-01-13 13:25:22 · 6 answers · asked by elisioloyd 2 in Singles & Dating

okay, a guy really likes to draw & he draws you a picture of you with your name at that the top in bubble letters. Does it mean anything?

2007-01-13 13:25:05 · 5 answers · asked by TT 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 13 an my boy friend is much older then me.he has asked me 4 sex meny times b4 but i said no!shal i give in the next time he asks???

2007-01-13 13:24:25 · 66 answers · asked by x_vodkachick_x 1 in Singles & Dating

She is my Best friend we've been friend for over 10 years. Her dad found out he had cancer and was going into chemo, but then yesturday found out he has less then 2 weeks left to live and going fast.

I was looking for a song I could use to put together something for her to show her I love her and I will be there for her.

Can anyone please give me a suggestion, I was thinking the new avril lavigne song Keep Holding On, but I wasn't sure if it sounded more romantic.
Thanks
Drea

2007-01-13 13:24:03 · 8 answers · asked by White Trash Beautiful 4 in Friends

We have been married for six years, three kids, one from my prev. marriage (9), one from his prev. marriage (8), and one together (5.) I am thin, fit, sexy, lost all the baby weight plus some more, worked in the fitness industry, got breast implants b/c I felt my breast looked icky after kids. I am cute and smart (grad degree) and funny. My husband never initiates sex, could go months without sex, and never gives me gifts (even on mjr holidays), never plans dates. I caught him looking at online porn about 1 yr ago and he is very smiley with hot women but no traces of phone calls/emails/etc. I am really smart and not easy to fool. What the ****? I am fed up with this guy. We used to have hot sex b4 marriage and in the 1st yr of marriage, we used to do all sorts of crazy dirtiness (w/toys, etc.), but now, he is like dead. I used to cry but now I'm just numb. Leaving him would be a struggle b/c I stopped working 1 yr ago b/c of so much going on w/the kids--at his request/demand.THOUGHTS?

2007-01-13 13:23:39 · 5 answers · asked by AM 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ey i got a big problem. i have a crush on this girl. i have known her for like 6 months and were good friends. we hang out alot and she just thinks of me as her guy friend. She isent like the hottest girl but she really nice and alwasy smiles no matter what. i want to become more then friends but i dont know how to. someone please help i want to make the move at a party im goin to on sunday.

2007-01-13 13:23:28 · 19 answers · asked by guitarhero213 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 13:23:17 · 12 answers · asked by Michelle V 1 in Friends

he came on the bus and told us he was on oxy. And was completely dazed, and...well...touchy and i'm not quite sure how to face him when school starts back on Tuesday. any advice?

2007-01-13 13:22:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It is really disappointing cos i had hardly seen any white girl going out with a chinese guy... which makes me wonder all the time, do white girls really dislike chinese guys or asians in general?? or is just that you dont find us attractive ...?

2007-01-13 13:22:57 · 9 answers · asked by dan 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I put an end to this?

2007-01-13 13:22:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 13:21:40 · 8 answers · asked by Danemma C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well my man wants me to spend the night with with him and i would do it but i still stay with my mother and me & my man will be getting are own place in june of this month and i only have 6 more months 2 go till me and my man do get are own place.

2007-01-13 13:21:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

After being rejected would a guy keep talking to you if he cared about you, or would he just ignore you because you hurt his feelings. How can you tell if a guy really cared about you, or was trying to get you to put out.

2007-01-13 13:21:05 · 5 answers · asked by ..;..;.. 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 13:21:00 · 3 answers · asked by marcel c 1 in Singles & Dating

card?

2007-01-13 13:20:49 · 11 answers · asked by coastie 4 in Friends

Well I really like this one girl but I can't figure out if she likes me or is just playing with me. I can't talk to her about it because she has a boyfriend and I'm not the kind of guy who messes in a relationship, I just want to know if she's interested.
We have two classes togeather, in one class we constantly make eye contact... I'm in a desk facing forwards, she's in one facing sideways right in front of me, so I can tell really easily if she looks at me.

I might be facing forward and she turns her head to look at me, we'll make eye contact for a split second and she'll turn away. I might be writing and I'll see her look at me and as soon as I lift my head she'll turn away. She might glance at me while she's packing her bags or filp her hair and glance at me and when something happens and everybodys laughing we'll always look at eachother.

Yet... in the other class, nothing. Maybe one glance over the whole class. So if she doesn't like me, what's up with all the eye contact

2007-01-13 13:20:46 · 4 answers · asked by joey 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this normal or do i have a wierd mental problem?

2007-01-13 13:20:43 · 16 answers · asked by Lying from you 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 13:20:34 · 15 answers · asked by exspider_9486 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i go to chruch and shake everyone hands and there were 3 girls siting there i go shake one of the girl hand and when i look back at her when i done shakeing her hand she smiles and her sister was siting near her i go shake her hand and she looks at me and my hand. and when i go back to sit i hear a wispering hes cute to her firend her firend looks at me for like 10 secs then the girl looks at me when i look back she loos somewhere else really fast why were the girls talking about me?

2007-01-13 13:19:15 · 11 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

When ever I leave my girls over my mom and sister house they ask for money for babysitting. I watch my sister son for free and he stays all weekend.

2007-01-13 13:18:39 · 15 answers · asked by taneshia027 2 in Family

I mean come on, when you hold them they are soft and squishy. Being kicked in the testicles must hurt so much!!!

2007-01-13 13:18:32 · 4 answers · asked by lara_acroft111 1 in Singles & Dating

Why are you with him? I mean I have so many friends who's wives and gf's try to tell them where and when they can go somewhere. Then when they do go they call them constantly or act mad for like a week. It infuriates me. If you trust them so little , why are you with them. I mean, i go where I want to when i want to. I don't do anything disrespectful though and my wife and I go as we please as long as one of us has the kids but we really don't go out much. So why would you be with someone who you feel like you have to check up on constantly like my friend's wives etc. Hopefully you can give me some insight on this.

2007-01-13 13:18:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, he insists he doesn't like me and gets mad when ppl say me and him should be together and that he likes me. He jokes around when he talks to me on aim, he switched his chair in the classroom with mine at my desk and told me and he came up to me at the dance and said I got my girlfriend back and Oh, your actually dancing. He always seemed like he looked for me at the dance and walked by me alot. I told him that I liked him sorta, but he says he doesn't like me? I think he's cute. I also sorta asked him out and he said no.

2007-01-13 13:17:34 · 6 answers · asked by Summerchic1315 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres guy this,Jeff,that ive liked for quite a while that i work with.well for awhile he was off from work because he was gonna go to colorado but it was postponed and now hes back,before he left he told me i had pretty eyes,and we got to know one another.Now thats hes back,i think i just wanna hangout with him.I tried getting to know him but its hard when i work with him and theres people around us and we like to talk when we're alone or noone can really hear us.Today,he gave me a ride home because a co-worker told jeff that i wanted a ride home and he was like,so u wanna ride home? and i said yeah so like later on,we went in his moms truck that he borrowed and i was like,so when do u wanna hang out? and he said whenever,but the problem is that he will have no money to hangout with because he has none from not going to colorado and just staying home and not coming back till now but if we go out i gotta pay for it,woudl that b right? or should he pay for it? he pays rent with all his

2007-01-13 13:17:28 · 17 answers · asked by me m 2 in Singles & Dating

ok I'm 15....THis girl is really pretty...and I wanna get to know her better...but...I've never even talked to her before.....like only for 5 minute.and thats it...but..I think she's "talking" to someone..but all her friends say I have a chance........that they heard her talkin good about me to her bestfriend.now..I wanna ask her best friend, if I have a shot, cuz she would know, and I just dont wanna come outa the blue, and ask the girl...and..i wanna get her email adreessss also, ...like I said..ive never talked to her..so I need some good advice...and shes popular..and so am I, and not tryin to be cocky, but I'm good lookin...i just need soem good advice..oh yeah ..im 15..shes 13..and Im focusing on my studies as well..so ..yeah.. but like yesterday..she wouldnt' even look at me..idk why?.( thats when she found out I liked her)..oh yeah...her friend " aproves" of me.so would it be bad 2 ask her wut she knows?..i can get her email from a friend..is that a bad idea

Additional Details

17 minutes ago
i mean i can get my crushes email from a friend....she didnt give it to me..like i said ..I've never really talked to her..If I emaieled her..would it be a bad idea???I mean what would I say?? advice

2007-01-13 13:17:25 · 23 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend is like the best! but whenever i invite her to some ocassions, their parents never let her come... her parents won't even let her talk in the phone!!!

2007-01-13 13:17:10 · 10 answers · asked by Sophiaaaaaaa 2 in Friends

my girlfriend gets really angry at me when i tell how how i feel or when i am upset lately i have been having trouble at home and when i try to speak to her about it she is very nasty and bites at me alot..i am now scared to speak to my girlfriend about how i feel incase she hurts me or is nasty or hurtfull to me what should i do

2007-01-13 13:16:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok my girl friend has been having a hard time at lunch and i sit with her can you help me on how to make her less sad and depressed so please help me on what to do?

2007-01-13 13:16:35 · 2 answers · asked by ausi 2 in Singles & Dating