my best friend is like the best! but whenever i invite her to some ocassions, their parents never let her come... her parents won't even let her talk in the phone!!!
2007-01-13 13:17:10 · 10 answers · asked by Sophiaaaaaaa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be a good friend. Don't encourage her to break the rules; don't interfere in any way with her parent's decisions.
This may not be what you want to hear ~ but you need respect the parameters/rules established by your friend's parents. If you encourage your friend to break those rules, you will prove the parents correct, strengthen their resolve to tighten the reins, and make them believe that they have good cause to limit her time with you. Things will become even worse for your friend. If you respect their rules, however, in time they may loosen up a little.
Try to arrange to spend time with your friend in her own home, where her parents can get to know you better and, perhaps, come to trust you as a positive influence.
Moreover, don't make matters worse for your friend by speaking poorly of her parents, making comments about how overly-protective they are, or by constantly (or even occasionally) commenting on how much she is missing.
Remember that you don't know everything there is to know about your friend or about her family. They may have good cause to be cautious.
2007-01-13 13:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by CallaLillie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm guessing that you're about thirteen years old. I consider out relationship, 15 or 16 is a more suitable constructive age. There fairly is not any favor for make up at thirteen both, back 15 or 16. putting out with pals must be ok see you later because the moms and dads recognize each and each of the pals and also you're in an proper area (a persons' abode, supervised). 8:00 is somewhat early for mattress, I agree that 9:00 will be more suitable acceptable. do no longer attempt to do issues in the back of your moms and dads backs, this can provide them a reason no longer to believe you. i'd remind your moms and dads how good you're and then ask for this kind of situations to be comfortable. attempt a sparkling bedtime for 2 weeks, in case you're nevertheless doing each thing it truly is requested, then you honestly could attempt to get yet another rule comfortable. good success!
2016-10-31 01:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well plan something that her parents will let her do that is fun for both of you. her parents are probably overprotective so do something that is fun but safe. if you say you are going to do something but do something else then sooner or later the parents will find out and your friend would probably be grounded for life. So i would say do something that her parents will let her do that is fun for you guys and maybe if her parents see that she is more responsible and trustworthy then maybe she can do other things you guys both probably wanted to do before but couldnt.
2007-01-13 13:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Cornelia Anabelle Banana Bo Peep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my parents were strict...the main thing i'd do would be to keep my trust with them. Call n let them know where your going. Check in every couple of hours to let them know you ok.
2007-01-13 13:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by *RaP sTaR* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until she starts paying the bills, I'd say she doesn't have a choice.
2007-01-13 13:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have to wait till she is a little older
2007-01-13 13:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing she can do cept move far away for college.
2007-01-13 13:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by Sara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got to learn to live with them thats all i know cuz i got the same problem.
2007-01-13 13:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by dreamz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess there is nothing you can do!!
2007-01-13 13:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then have ur parents talk to her and see wat they can do...
2007-01-13 13:20:37 · answer #10 · answered by UdOnTkNoWmE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋