ok I'm 15....THis girl is really pretty...and I wanna get to know her better...but...I've never even talked to her before.....like only for 5 minute.and thats it...but..I think she's "talking" to someone..but all her friends say I have a chance........that they heard her talkin good about me to her bestfriend.now..I wanna ask her best friend, if I have a shot, cuz she would know, and I just dont wanna come outa the blue, and ask the girl...and..i wanna get her email adreessss also, ...like I said..ive never talked to her..so I need some good advice...and shes popular..and so am I, and not tryin to be cocky, but I'm good lookin...i just need soem good advice..oh yeah ..im 15..shes 13..and Im focusing on my studies as well..so ..yeah.. but like yesterday..she wouldnt' even look at me..idk why?.( thats when she found out I liked her)..oh yeah...her friend " aproves" of me.so would it be bad 2 ask her wut she knows?..i can get her email from a friend..is that a bad idea
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i mean i can get my crushes email from a friend....she didnt give it to me..like i said ..I've never really talked to her..If I emaieled her..would it be a bad idea???I mean what would I say?? advice
2007-01-13 13:17:25 · 23 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't email her, talk to her in person
ask her if she has a boyfriend and if she says no, say "so when can i take you out to dinner?"
girls like guys that are confident
she probably didn't look at you when she found out that you liked her because she was expecting you to go up to her or she just simply didn't want you to know that she knows that you like her
2007-01-13 13:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by Yosalin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step 1: Calm down, there is lots of time before the school year ends for you to get to know the pretty girl... b/c girls generally don't like to be rushed.
Step 2: Talking to her friend would be a good idea, to find out what activities the pretty girl is involved in (example- Drama Club) and what she enjoys doing/ is interested in.
Step 3: Join [Drama Club] and get to know the pretty girl. Talk to her, become friends. Don't simply ask her out before you two know each other. That may work in movies, but trust me that first date is awkward if you have no common ground to talk about.
2007-01-13 13:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by Meagan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is she in middle school and you're in highschool? Because that's just a bad idea. Um 2 things, I think you should ask this question in adolescents too because its geared towards people your age and you might get better answers from people more in the situation.
I say get to know her in person, not via email or aim, it just builds up expectations and doesn't cut down on the in person awkwardness that you'll have to address either way. Plus you don't look weak. Just be casual and strike up a conversation.
2007-01-13 13:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by texas hearts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure! by no skill,less than any condition,take a drowsing pill and a laxative on the same evening. there is an truly high-quality line between "interest" and "psychological ailment." you mustn't confuse your career consisting of your existence. by no skill lick a steak knife. the most unfavorable pressure interior the universe is gossip. and also you should by no skill say something to a lady that even remotely recommend that you imagine she's pregnant until eventually you are able to discover an actual toddler rising from her at that second.
2016-11-23 16:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to her. not email - have the balls to go actually talk to her. Find something you have in common - a band you both like, a school sport or club, anything. Talk to her - about her. NOT about you, not about the two of you, just 7 minutes about her. Then, if things are going well, ask her out. Something non-threatening. Get a "yes", smile, then walk away. Never wear out your welcome. Odds are, she'll bail the conversation out more often than not - that's what girls do for guys they like.
2007-01-13 13:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do in my opinion would be to talk to her. Aske her if she wants to go out or give her your phone number or email or whatever. Don't sneak behind her back and get her email. That's kinda personal. Just be up front and honest, I' sure she probably likes you if your getting good signals from her friends. Just be confident. good luck. :)
2007-01-13 13:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by yay_boxes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HER THEN!!! the key to a woman's/girl's heart is knowledge...knowledge about that woman/girl..the only way you'll be able to get that certain knowledge is through communication..if you want to email her then its alright,but I suggest you ask it from her yourself...coz some girls get annoyed when someone she doesnt know emails them...so I suggest you ask it from her yourself,if she gives it to you willingly,then that's a good sign..but remember this,the more you know about the person,it's either you fall in or you fall out love..so I suggest that while you're trying to get to know her,let her get to know you as well...God bless!
2007-01-13 13:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by rika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im 17.. and the best way to handle this is by talking to her over the computer... get it from a friend or find her on myspace or something and slowly work it up to talking on the phone and talking at skool... show her that ur intrested but also get to know her before you push it too far.. you dont want her to think its just because of her looks... you want to let her know its because of HER
2007-01-13 13:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me too. i liked this girl but for a while, she would not look at me. what i would do is lay off for a while and see how things turn out. lay off for about a week. but make sure if you see her, you say hi but don't try to dig deeper yet. by the way she reacts to you, you will be able to tell after a week if it is ok to get closer. also, help her out as much as possible - if she needs help carrying things, if she looks troubled
hope everything goes out all right
2007-01-13 13:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by Ratchet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to strike up a conversation with the girl herself...ask her if she minds giving you her email address so you can communicate.
Cool about keeping up with school.
Go to the person...not the people around her if you want the truth and an honest answer to your question...she is the only one who really knows.
be cool
2007-01-13 13:23:19 · answer #10 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋