ey i got a big problem. i have a crush on this girl. i have known her for like 6 months and were good friends. we hang out alot and she just thinks of me as her guy friend. She isent like the hottest girl but she really nice and alwasy smiles no matter what. i want to become more then friends but i dont know how to. someone please help i want to make the move at a party im goin to on sunday.
2007-01-13 13:23:28 · 19 answers · asked by guitarhero213 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her u have feelings for her..i bet she is dying for u to say that.
2007-01-13 13:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put her on the spot by telling her you have feelings for her. That will just make things uncomfortable. Maybe call her up before the party and ask if you can take her. Flirt with her a little bit. Sooner or later she'll get the picture and if she likes you, she'll let you know and if she doesn't she'll drop hints for you to back off a bit. Also, you might want to ask some of her girlfriends if she's interested in anyone at the moment. If you ask them, they will more than likely tell her. That's a way of telling her you're interested without actually telling her. Good luck dude!
2007-01-13 21:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u guys r both gonna b at the party, rite? then y not make the first move by askin her to go to the same party but with u (so u'll like go as a date or sumthin) see how she reacts an then things will go on. i mean she mite also b a bit scared an shy at first (like mayb she wouldn't want to break bond u guys have) ---but in the end if u both share the same feelings (an yes it is way hot if the guy makes the first move --- so thumbs up for that :) then even tho things mite change in the future......well i guess u never no unless u try. build up that strength an tell her in the sweetest, most caring an passionate (+cutest) way u can!!! --- o yeah don't over do it as well (like roses an chocalotes --- thats for later), she mite get over whelmed.
anyways i wish u guys luck, an my best wishes!!!!!!! XD go for it dude!!! awwwwwwwwwww......this is jus so sweet!!! u rock!!!!!!!
2007-01-13 21:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's great that you even do want to tell her how u feel. There's a guy that likes me that's in the same deal as you. He's too scared to ask me out though because he thinks it will end badly. But if I'm speaking as if I were talking to him about this I'd say ask her out ASAP. If she says no she'll do her very best not to hurt ur feelings for your sake. If she's worth your time at all she will remain friends with you and if u wait longer maybe she'll warm up to the idea.
GOOD LUCK SWEETHEART! HOPE SHE WANTS U AS MUCH AS YOU WANT HER!
2007-01-13 21:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't get the best answer for this probably... But you've already entered the "friend's zone". I don't know what you want with this girl, if it's sex, you aren't going to get it for a LONG time. A girl doesn't want to f*ck her "guy friend", and also doesn't want to jeopardize a friendship with a relationship. My advice is keep her as a friend, and find a new girl, if you are lucky, she'll get jealous and you'll have two girls.
2007-01-13 21:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. but i have known the girl since we were like little kids. and she thinks teh same of me. jsut make a move like ask her if u can talk to her and be like i know we are friends but i want to be more, and if shes like " i dont want u to get hurt" just be like " i wont" dont go stragiht for a kiss, that wont be good first just talk to her about it. let her hear u out. let me know how things go! good luck
2007-01-13 21:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by mbjack0407 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, your gonna have to be a man now, just go for it and if she says no who cares, there are millions of girls that are better looking and have a better smile. its better to try something and get rejected than not ever trying anything. besides you will have gained experience and know what you did wrong, when the next chick comes along you will know what to do. just relax and have fun. good luck
2007-01-13 21:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by quik1804 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk 2 her n tell her how u feel dont b scared u never kno if she like u 2 but she scared 2 tell u
2007-01-13 21:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you can do is talk to her about her and know her for at least 8months and then tell her you have a crush on her and she will maybe will like you to but if you don't tell her you will not go out with her.
2007-01-13 21:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by Mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her what does she think of you and her as a couple. see how she reacts. after a few days, if she doesn't act the same around you then she doesn't feel the same way and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. if she acts flirty then make your move.
2007-01-13 21:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont at a party..take her to a movie as friends but express your feelings..flirt where she will get the idea..if she backs away..then know that she doesnt like you ..if she is ok with you coming on to her..flirt more...get your point across
2007-01-13 21:27:37 · answer #11 · answered by SLIM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋