Family & Relationships - 13 January 2007

Im a nice girl, 21 years, not fat or skinny (average), smart (industrial engineer), not drop dead gorgeus but not totally ugly, and i have so many other qualities people like. But i havent had a boyfriend in years!!! I mean there are guys after me but i just dont like them (i find some little detail that makes them unlikely to me) and the guys i like dont notice me or they already have a boyfriend. Any way any opinions on this?

Oh and yeah i know im young, and have life ahead of me, but i want a boyfriend lol!!! Thanks!

2007-01-13 14:21:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she promised to god and still told the secret.

2007-01-13 14:21:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay, a guy 2 years younger than me really likes me. Hes very sweet but im not sure if i like him like that but im also not sure if the age has anything to do with it. what should i do

2007-01-13 14:21:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're in our 20's.

We hadn't seen each other for 5 yrs then started seeing each other again recently.

It seemed as though things were going great and we were quickly on the way to becoming bf/gf. I was over at his house the other night when the phone rang. He told the person on the other line that his friend followed by my name was over.

I was stunned when I heard him call me his FRIEND! When he said that, I felt like I could be a guy, a buddy, a pal.The thing is we don't act like friends. He treats me more like a girlfriend.

I really like him, but do you suppose he'll ever see me as more?

2007-01-13 14:20:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this girl from india and we hit it off.we contact each other 2 or 3 times a day,sometimes a lot more.she says she loves me very much,she is 26 and im 36.she has played me for a fool a few times,saying she had landed in australia and was coming to my home. i did so much to be ready,i went 50 kms to pick her up but ,well, it was a joke.im so in love with her,i let it go and kept on with her.i should point out,i left my wife,for her.now she says the only way for us to have any future is if i go to india.i do love her.what should i do. im so confused.

2007-01-13 14:20:43 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems like guys are really into women being on top during sex, but when I hear that's what they want, I clam up....in other words, I have to make sure they close their eyes because I feel that its degrading, I don't want them to see me doing this even though they get off on it, things are jiggling, and I feel my status decreases in their mind. I find it funny that I can orgasm in the "on top" position on my own rather than being on top of a guy, so it ends up being a chore during sex itself. Why is this? I feel like even if a guy did make me feel comfortable, I'd think he was just telling me a load of crayola!

2007-01-13 14:20:35 · 7 answers · asked by fbiforensicsgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 14:18:15 · 12 answers · asked by james bond 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been going out for almost a month and we used to talk a lot, but now we almost never talk and at school we almost never see each other. i really love him and he says that he loves me, but i am afraid that it wont work out between the two of us.

another problem is that i think one of my friends likes him and she keeps on telling other people about me and my boyfriend and i dont want her to tell people these things because its meant to be kept between me and him, i dont even know how she found out about it either!

i really need your advice on what i should do. and only serious answers please!

2007-01-13 14:17:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is so sweet , he has everything i want..he tells me that he loves me ..what can i do to know if he loves me for sure ?

2007-01-13 14:17:49 · 8 answers · asked by Music 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i go to chruch and shake everyone hands and there were 3 girls siting there i go shake one of the girl hand and when i look back at her when i done shakeing her hand she smiles and her sister was siting near her i go shake her hand and she looks at me and my hand. and when i go back to sit i hear a wispering hes cute to her firend her firend looks at me for like 10 secs then the girl looks at me when i look back she loos somewhere else really fast why were the girls talking about me?

2007-01-13 14:16:36 · 1 answers · asked by sweeter a 1 in Singles & Dating

alive and rents are still friends with his...what do you think?

2007-01-13 14:16:14 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-13 14:15:33 · 19 answers · asked by techno_freak72 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im going to listen to irreplacable and my friend bet 20 dollars saying i will not listen to the whole song.
Pray that my ears recover.
AND please DUMB comments like "u kids should be doing something with your lives" will be reported.
Oh i got all a honor at my school WOOT WOOT
Ok here we go i hope my ears are well.

2007-01-13 14:15:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they make fun of me call me names behind my back in the gym they only call me when they want to go out drinking i hate it why do people allways call me to go out drinking but wont call me to do nothing else

2007-01-13 14:15:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His mother was a nutcase. She had a bad relationship and stuff and when she got pregnant her husband left her for a co-worker she felt it was unplanned pregnany's fault so she named the kid Richard, but his middle name is Egghead. Seriously. This isn't funny. Fortunately, her aunt found out she needed help financially and mentally so she called social workers, and now the kid is 7 years old and he's been adopted by some nice family... And they're gonna change his name and everything... This storyw as so touching, and I nearly cried when the kid told me.. I just thought you would all like to know.. Sorry if you wasted your time, but I jsut want people to see how certain parents can be so... mean.

2007-01-13 14:15:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am the maid of honor is my friends wedding in june 2007... I was wondering what all I have to do, like toast at the reception... etc..... I know that sounds bad and all, but she is the first to get married out of our group... I need some help... Thanks in advance!!!

2007-01-13 14:15:15 · 11 answers · asked by CP 2 in Weddings

is there signs if your wife don't really loves you? if yes, then please can somebody tell how to know and which signs are....

2007-01-13 14:15:11 · 2 answers · asked by S_M_A_R_T_Y 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 14:14:57 · 7 answers · asked by lexiemarie2424 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 14:14:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi I'm having a small problem down there with growing up. Basically I'm not sure if I'am .... is a golfball sizzed scrotum with grape sized testicles ok? A five inch maximum erection and absolutely no pubes yet.... I'm 21 years old what gives? I'm just wondering how this will affect my general chances of getting a date. Thanks

2007-01-13 14:14:31 · 2 answers · asked by enigmatic e 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is really nice but just only before. So I show nice to her. Weeks past, she turned to a cold shiny plastic! She always asks me to buy anything she wants without giving me any money! My other friend is just irritated to her. We spent dollars! hundreds of dollars! I cannot save money for my intentions! If I didn't buy the things she wanted she'll got mad! How can i tell her to stop that way! I don't wanna lose a friend.

2007-01-13 14:14:15 · 4 answers · asked by be prank to me 2 in Friends

I'm always saying to people here, don't snoop, don't peek, because it only starts trouble. Well I broke my own rule and I'm so devastated that I did. I wish I hadn't peeked. Now I have "half" the information and don't know what's true and my imagination is running wild. I wish I never snooped. I wish I hadn't done it.

i'm so sad.

did you ever wish you hadn't snooped

2007-01-13 14:12:48 · 28 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a girl that I really [really] like. Nut I don't know if she likes me back. I asked her out once, she said she wasn't ready for another boyfriend. All my friends tell me that she was letting me down easy. I don't know what to think. Was she telling the truth about not being ready? It has been about 2 months since i asked. I'm not sure if I should ask her again. I think that she's avoiding me. But, she looks at me. On the bus or sometimes when I walk by her. What does that mean. Whenever she makes eye contact with me she looks away. It still hurts at times. If I ask her out again, I don't want to be rejected again. Once really hurt as it is. I'm scared to ask her out again. I'm scared of being rejected again. I love her. But she's happy. Happy without me. She doesn't need someone like me to mess up her life any more then it has been. I here all the time that if you truely love someone, that you would be willing to let her go, just for her to be happy. Help me, what do I do next?

2007-01-13 14:12:38 · 8 answers · asked by Ricky 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 14:12:36 · 11 answers · asked by hiphopmusicdance 3 in Singles & Dating

is it possible to know if the love only from one part in a relation? if yes .. then tell me the signs of it

2007-01-13 14:12:26 · 1 answers · asked by S_M_A_R_T_Y 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is an idiot and doesn't have a drivers license or a state id... how do we prove that she is 18? we live in the state of idaho so if you know specifically idaho law, that would help.

2007-01-13 14:12:05 · 8 answers · asked by Tara 2 in Friends

ok i hv this friend and she gets in trouble alot. and one day we wer hving gym and she said we r going to ditch gym today. and i said no the first time but yes the second time. then the teacher finally found out when she was dividing the class inton teams. and we got in big trouble. so i dont no wat to do cuz shes been getting me in trouble a lot and just recently she wanted me to help her cheat in a test. in any thing if i say no shes always says that" friends r always there for each other" or " i wont be ur friend any more" so i need help plz good advice! thx

p.s im 12

2007-01-13 14:11:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hey, well theres this boy I'm interested in and he looks at me and we talk, greet back and forth and he smiles at me and this only happens with me, he's very shy though. today i saw him he glanced quickly and kept walking, i was busy so he couldn't come over but then later when i was out of work, he was busy. could it be he's not interested? what can i do to open him up a bit, i know it'll take time, and i wouldn't mind taking time, i'd like some hints to ease his nervousness around me. thanks. he gets a red too, aww he's adorable. =)

2007-01-13 14:11:19 · 18 answers · asked by latina ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well i was sure my crush liked me untill about 5 weeks ago everything changed. just out of the blue one day he stopped talkin 2 me, walkin 2 class wit me, teasing me, flirtin with me, and he just doesnt do that anymore. and last week hes been so strange. he has been so mean and jerky to me 4 no reason and i have never seem him act this way toward anybody. and me and my best friend are tying to figure out y but cant figure it out. we both thought he liked me and i was gonna say somethin but then this came up. he pushes me out the way and acts so rude and like he has no manners and it bugs me. i still like him but part of me hates him cuz hes pissin me off. does this have to do with emotions? i was thinkin tues. i was gonna get to school early cuz i know hes there and ask him if i can speak to him and ask him why hes been like this. maybe i can get him to crack. so what do you think about that?? just help me out as best as u can. i really wanna know whats up with him so help me out!!!

2007-01-13 14:11:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they always have somethin to say are all ways do something that brakes your heart are they are a jerk!! are just a player whats with them?

2007-01-13 14:10:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating