There is a girl that I really [really] like. Nut I don't know if she likes me back. I asked her out once, she said she wasn't ready for another boyfriend. All my friends tell me that she was letting me down easy. I don't know what to think. Was she telling the truth about not being ready? It has been about 2 months since i asked. I'm not sure if I should ask her again. I think that she's avoiding me. But, she looks at me. On the bus or sometimes when I walk by her. What does that mean. Whenever she makes eye contact with me she looks away. It still hurts at times. If I ask her out again, I don't want to be rejected again. Once really hurt as it is. I'm scared to ask her out again. I'm scared of being rejected again. I love her. But she's happy. Happy without me. She doesn't need someone like me to mess up her life any more then it has been. I here all the time that if you truely love someone, that you would be willing to let her go, just for her to be happy. Help me, what do I do next?
2007-01-13 14:12:38 · 8 answers · asked by Ricky 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh hun :(, just take a breather. Okay first you got to let her give herself a breather maybe she's going through something that has to do with Ex boyfriend. Have you guys gone out? She seems like she has deep feelings for you, this is what you do... Come to her door with flowers and ask her "If we can't be lovers, can we be friends?" and go on from. And if she's rejecting you like "i can't do this right now" or "this isn't working out" be like "why, i think i deserve a reason why don't I?" and just work yourself from there. Hope everything goes right, good luck!!!
2007-01-13 14:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by kiki22592 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you hang out in the same group? If you do try suggesting all of you go out to a movie together or share some other common interest. Sometimes on group dates couples hook-up. People usually don't make eye contact with people they aren't somewhat interested in. I know I don't. Although this is risky have one of your friends set-up you up on a blind date. That's how I met the love of my life. We don't have the "perfect marriage" , but we do love each other.
2007-01-13 14:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by pmz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it some time, young people can say something one day and completely change their mind the next. just don't appear too in a rush, or too needy. we all fear rejection, and it does keep us from asking for what we want, and reaching out to those we love. good luck, she may come around, just start out being her friend, doesn't have to start out as anything but friends.
2007-01-13 14:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, I think that she truly does not like you and does not want to hurt your feelings by letting you know bluntly. I think it would be best if you move on and try to like someone else. By being focused on just one girl, you might be closing your eyes to another perfect girl right in front of you.
2007-01-13 14:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by Dairy Fairy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really love her would you rather see her happy with some one else or with you
if she rejects you its her loss
and if she says yes
it would make you happy but make sure she too is happy
2007-01-13 14:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by spongebob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*eyes water up*
Don't even get me started.
I'm in this same situation.
Just.... like someone new.
But it will be hard.
I haven't really recovered yet.
2007-01-13 14:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep busy and give it time.
2007-01-13 14:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a dildo it helps trust me
2007-01-13 14:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋