2007-01-13 14:12:36 · 11 answers · asked by hiphopmusicdance 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u have to impress him, he shouldnt be your bf...
2007-01-13 14:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by Elliot M. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't listen to what some others have said about dressing like a ****. Men like women who are dressed very decently, yet sexily. There is a difference between sexy and slutty. So go for decent, feminine dresses.
Don't make your life revolve around him. He might feel suffocated and pressured that way. Get passionate about Other things in your life so he knows you are happy living a complete life. Have friends outside of him.
Don't be clingy. Give your BF some space. Let him hang out with his friends without being sad or complaining. This will certainly impress him.
Always be emotionally stable as much as you can. Guys dont like screaming or too much whining and drama or arguments. They like a girl with a good, positive attitude who has a good head on her shoulders.
Trust him. This is quite major.
Be there for him as a support when the chips are down.
Cook for both of you. He will love your home cooked meals. Good guys will appreciate that effort.
Give him genuine compliments, which you really feel in your heart. Make him feel good about himself.
Try to always *understand* his point of view.
Guys like girls more when they feel *understood* by them.
Always be faithful. No flirtations with other men.
This is major too.
Accept him. Don't push him to change. Guys (or anyone else for that matter) dislike being told to change their ways.
This is all I can think of for now.
Don't worry you will be great.
But I am hoping that he is also doing his bit to make you feel loved.
2007-01-13 14:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, this should help :)
Try to look your best when around him. You don't have to be dressed up, just be dressed nicely. The key is to look good without looking like you tried to look good.
Go light on the make up. If you wear make up,try not to wear a lot or at least try to make it look "natural". Most men don't like their girlfriends to wear make up and prefer to think that their good looks are naturally there.
Have a positive attitude. If everything you say around him is a criticism or an attack, he will not look forward to seeing you. However, you don't always have to agree with him just because he is your boyfriend.
Make your desires, needs, and opinions known, even when they may conflict with his. Acting like you exist solely to please him will get you no respect and may even make him bored with your company. Showing that you are your own person with your own needs, desires, and approach to life will keep him interested in getting to know and understand you as a person.
Learn the date of his birthday , so you can always send him a nice card, and perhaps a small gift. Remember, that you enjoy when he gives you gifts, and he feels the same way.
When you meet his family, be polite and sincere. Be friendly with his friends, and introduce him to yours. Let him feel that he is a part of your life, just as he makes you feel a part of his.
Give him his 'space', and allow him to spend time with the 'guy's when he wants to. Do not always feel you have to hang around with him. Set a day where you two go out to dinner and a movie or even skating, and spend other times with friends.
Don't try "too hard". Attend to the details above, but still be yourself. Do not make it seem like you are trying too hard to be someone you are not.
2007-01-13 14:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is have a great smile. A smile tells people that you are friendly and fun to be with. And avoid wearing black and other dark colors. Wear an outfit with the bright primary colors [something that I can't do, bright ain't my style] good luck :)
2007-01-13 14:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ricky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love him. Say it. It is quite impressive to hear that back.
2007-01-13 14:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by Dido 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would u want or need to impress your bf?? after he says will u go out with me then u shouldn't have to impress him.
2007-01-13 14:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by The One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I'd say dance. It worked for me!!
2007-01-13 14:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by Kristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cook for him.. most guys i know love it when a girl cooks for him. guess my grandma wasn't kidding when she said "the way to a mans heart is through his stomach" :)
2007-01-13 14:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't make him boring. don't having sex too early with him. increase your knowledge and be patient, cheerful.
2007-01-13 14:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by miu0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take an intetest in his interests.
2007-01-13 14:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋