I'm always saying to people here, don't snoop, don't peek, because it only starts trouble. Well I broke my own rule and I'm so devastated that I did. I wish I hadn't peeked. Now I have "half" the information and don't know what's true and my imagination is running wild. I wish I never snooped. I wish I hadn't done it.
i'm so sad.
did you ever wish you hadn't snooped
2007-01-13 14:12:48 · 28 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it's not the end of the world baby girl next time you know better
2007-01-13 14:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by darkangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you peeked at. But no matter what it was, you now know and saw what you wanted to. So What? you would have seen it sooner or later anyway. I think in your life you will find yourself peeking again. It's human nature to find out what you want to Especially if it is as easy as peeking. Sometimes this is not legal, but only you will know. You will however have to live with what you peek at. As you stated, peeking can be upsetting and if you are upset by what you did (1/2 the info) you will have to wait for the rest or just fess up and ask some questions. It's your choice.
2007-01-13 22:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by endusermrsnafu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I guess I never have or have never run across anything that bothered me.
Looks like you have to finish the job. It's no good to go around with half the story. get the rest straight from him. Don't take any guff. make him tell you the truth and don't be in denial about this. I'm sure you know already that he is cheating for sure.
The truth is a good thing. You may think you wish you didn't know but, hey, you would just be living a lie. So do it quickly, like tape being pulled off a wound, it will hurt less if you don't drag it out.
2007-01-13 22:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by outdone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What did you look at? I wish I never did snoop but if I hadn't He wouldn't have told me he was seeing a sewer rat behind my back and I may have gotten a disease. Just try to get the info out of him without letting on you snooped.
2007-01-13 22:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just human nature sometimes as we get curious and insecure. The problem is that you can't erase the information you have now and you need to figure out if you can just out it aside and move on or if it going to keep eating at you. If you can't let it go, you are probably best to try and talk to him about it and apologise for snooping otherwise things may become uncomfortable - especially if you are not trusting him
Good Luck
2007-01-13 22:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by milljanni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do? Look in his wallet and find a phone number?? Just curious...Anyway, don't keep beating yourself up about it. Just remember how you feel if the temptation to peek ever arises again. I am really curious as to how much cash my husband carries in his wallet, but, like you say it causes trouble.
2007-01-13 22:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by meteor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should confess to your guy and tell him what happened. If he really cares about you, he'll understand. If he doesn't maybe he's not the right guy for you. Whatever you snooped and peeked at, I don't think it'll matter to him once you confess. Good luck!
2007-01-13 22:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by cozmikdolphin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a firm believe in two things : 1) never snoop unless you are prepared for what you find. 2) If you have to wonder something is wrong( possibly).
2007-01-13 22:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by un_cov_br 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have wished that. Please don't try to find out the other half of the information. If you are meant to know it you will. Anything that is wrong will be shown. Just watch and wait, but don't peek.
2007-01-13 22:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by Lolitta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I would use the information in a positive way if possible. Unless you found out that he's murdering people of course.
2007-01-13 22:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by Jenny m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋