ok well i was sure my crush liked me untill about 5 weeks ago everything changed. just out of the blue one day he stopped talkin 2 me, walkin 2 class wit me, teasing me, flirtin with me, and he just doesnt do that anymore. and last week hes been so strange. he has been so mean and jerky to me 4 no reason and i have never seem him act this way toward anybody. and me and my best friend are tying to figure out y but cant figure it out. we both thought he liked me and i was gonna say somethin but then this came up. he pushes me out the way and acts so rude and like he has no manners and it bugs me. i still like him but part of me hates him cuz hes pissin me off. does this have to do with emotions? i was thinkin tues. i was gonna get to school early cuz i know hes there and ask him if i can speak to him and ask him why hes been like this. maybe i can get him to crack. so what do you think about that?? just help me out as best as u can. i really wanna know whats up with him so help me out!!!
2007-01-13 14:11:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way i 4got this part. he even said that we were "good friends" so why do u think he said that and now id acting like i dont exist and we arent?
2007-01-13 14:12:06 · update #1
When a fella first gets attracted to a female he produces more female hormones and it makes the female think, "This guy really understands me". What you are probably seeing is the real deal. That is why it is important to take your time in relationships so you can see what the real deal is. Hopefully his health has not changed or he has not started using drugs of some sort. Pot makes people act like jerks when they don't have some. Mmm
2007-01-13 14:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's good that this happened now.
These are the kinds of details you need to look for while you're dating. That's why it's called dating, you go from one date to the next.
Obviously he has shown you some of his bad side. More than likely he was faking the good side.
Move on, don't turn back, don't talk to him, don't associate with him.
If you do you will regret it later on. As a matter of fact it would be best that you openly extressed top him what you thought of him.
That's what this person needs to hear. He cannot understand what he is doing because this is his character.
To change that character would take many classes in relationships and understanding self.
Hope you find someone that uplifts you.
2007-01-13 14:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by JOHN S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK sweety. I am guessing you two are teenagers. So it could be a combination of hormonal changes, & gross immaturity at work here. The most important thing to remember is that unless you can think of something that you did to him that was SERIOUSLY wrong, & I do mean SERIOUS, like you killed his dog, or took his ipod, & stomped it into pieces on the floor or something like that then NONE OF THIS IS YOUR FAULT!
So even if it is a case of raging teanage hormones, or immaturinty on his part he is still responsible for the choices he makes. If he chooses to treat you like a cow pie then he needs to know that there are consequences for his actions.
Like he loses your respect, & friendship.
You have no control over the choices he makes for himself, but you certainly have control over your own. So choose not to let him get away with that. I don't mean go for revenge. Just don't give him the oppourtunity to disrespect you anymore.
If he comes scratching around wondering why he hasn't seen you lately, then tell him like it is. Tell him he pizzed you off, & that you felt sad, & hurt by the way he treated you, & that if he does want to be around you, that he's going to have to prove that he deserves that privilage.
People treat you the way you teach them to.
Here's to your self-respect.
2007-01-13 14:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys probably are "just good friends". you like him but he may not feel the same way about you but that's no excuse for him treating you like that. you should talk to him and ask him why he's been acting rude to you lately. he could have problems going on in his home and doesn't realize he's been acting this way because his mind is on something else but you never know unless you ask. and if he's still acting this way, stay away from him, you don't need to be involved with anyone like that anyway. but i hope you guys will remain friends and hopefully something more.
2007-01-13 14:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by jdukenumber1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wwont find out why if you never ask. I guess you wouldnt want to be left wondering forver. Have the courage to stand up & ask him. At least do it for your dignity..he has been bloody rude to you. If i were you, i would have bash him like hell.
Just come up to him & ask in a flat tone: whats ur problem? u have been very rude to me!. Hon, its not a a nice thing for a man to do those kind of thing to a lady. Whatever the reason is, he needs to GROW UP. and again..if i were you, forget him. Go & find someone much better for you-plenty of fish on the sea.
2007-01-13 14:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know a lot about his family? This happened to a friend of mine last year and we figured out her guy was suffering from some kind of depression since he lost his mother. It could be drugs or anything that happens at home or any where else. Try to sit down with him and talk or get him to talk to a Guidance Counselor at school or a Adjustment counselor if your school has one
2007-01-13 14:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by kiki22592 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 16:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like something's going on at home. I guess your idea would work, but if he starts snapping at you, don't snap back. Just calmy point out that whatever's making him like this is only gonna get worse if he keeps being a jerk. If he really does like you, then he'll actually start thinking before he acts.
2007-01-13 14:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by Mayonaka yuki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy is having problems.
You should definatly confront him about it because maybe he heard a rumor or something. You know how life is.. people are stupid. So talk to him, and if he wont give a straight awnser hes not worth it.
2007-01-13 14:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by ampedrockstar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That just happened to me with one of my pledge dawgs, anyways it sucks and the best thing to do is just leave them alone and give them some space, His friends are prop-lee sayin stuff about you and it's changing his outlook on you, if you still feel propelled to him then ask him what's up with him.
2007-01-13 14:17:41 · answer #10 · answered by #35|how misery loves me| 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋